Why are birthdays always about other people?

[fonduegirl]

i asked mom for biryani bcz tomorrow is likey 25th birthday lol and she said nobody would eat it because it's Thursday baby that means no meat no sire ☺️☺️ then she said I should go for the pastry instead of a big cake bcs I don't do parties like ever and it didn't occur to her I could enjoy the whole gigantic black forest by myself ☺️☺️ if i ask for a bicycle tomorrow they'd be like why don't you drive vehicles like a friggin same person in the modern age...

whats up with that? for once in my birthday, i don't want to wake up to a wet pillow and puffy eyes 🙂🙂

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4 mo

My brother wished me happy birthday on Insta but he used a full picture and I look so fkn fat in that... WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME

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4 mo

MIND YOU I LOOK LIKE HEDY LAMAR ISTG AND HE JUST PICKED THOSE PICTURES OUT OF SPITE THAT VILE ASH CREATURE OF MY SIBLING

[aaron13547]

Because they love you...

Its not right to feel like we are born into a world where we exist for other people. We didn't ask to be here... But we are; guess what? you dont have to do it for her!

This life is about freedom and unity. You've learned all about unity, and love and for 24 years you have done everything they told you...

I got good news you said you dont want to cry anymore. 😁😁😁Your 25, HAPPYBIRTHDAY! today it changes 🌞. You live for you now! Not them. Tell them NO! get on your bike and ride away (even if just metaphorically)

The secert to this is love. They love you. You've spent 25 years doing as you were told and it has not worked for you. Tell them that. That love they have for you; if its worth holding onto, they will help you become all YOU want to be. Not who they want you to be, also Not force you to do things their way.

Take your life back; its yours from this day forward! 😉

You got this! Today is an opportunity not a problem, so smile!

[fonduegirl]

Thanks Aaron

[Lynx122]

She should have given you biryani tbh :S My birthdays were about me, I never really needed much to be happy but my mom would make whatever food and cake that I wanted :). I hope you could still enjoy your day! Happy Birthday :)

[RandomGirl42]

Oh, I know all about vile siblings, I'm the youngest of 5, lol! And yes, my birthday is always about other people too since it's on a friggen Holiday! What kind of crap is that where I have to share -MY- birthday with the rest of the world. Screw off! It's my day!

Ok, enough of that rant. I'll just wake up with a wet pillow, puffy eyes and go get drunk on that day! 🤣

[fonduegirl]

Sometimes alcohol is the answer

[RandomGirl42]

Yes, it is. And Happy Birthday! 🎂 I promise not to post any pics of u that make u look fat! 🤣

[fonduegirl]

Thanks hun

[LovingJo]

Bless your heart. It's YOUR birthday, do what makes YOU happy!!! Fuk everyone else!! 💯


Happy Birthday to you!! 🎉🎂🎈🎁✨😊💕

[fonduegirl]

Thanks Jo

[LovingJo]

Thanks for the MHO 😘

[Grond21]

I am sorry. Your birthday is supposed to be about you. But it's your mom was making it about other people. But...

Happy Birthday!!!

[fonduegirl]

Thanks big J

[Grond21]

Yeah, now the day isn't going the best, I'm still happy for you.

[Kaneki05]

Culture I guess. Though in a way I envy that. Don't get me I would hate it after one time but when your birthday is just a normal day and nobody cares to even force you to do something that's the other end of it sucking I suppose.

[queenofcardio]

It's supposed to be about you.. sorry

[fonduegirl]

I need a hug and a drink (non alcoholic cider)