If nothing about your life changes, are you willing to admit this is exactly the life you’re choosing?

[Anonymous]

1. Where are you pretending to wait, when you’re actually avoiding a decision?
2. What are you still blaming, even though you have control over it?
3. If you’re honest, what have you already accepted but refuse to admit?

# I think this is where it stops being about circumstances because staying the same isn’t passive, it’s a decision and the uncomfortable part is realizing you’re not just living this life, you’re choosing it, every day you don’t change it.

[SueShe]

I live the life I chose to live but still, there are a lot of things that change. Some of the changes are decisions made by me, others are just what life throws at you.

I have always stated that I wanted to remain single and celibate. I do have control of that part of my life and I am more than just happy about it. Other parts, like getting older are changes that I have little influence on but still impact me.

Another change that has a great influence on how I live my life is working towards my degree. This is a conscious change because I want it to happen.

Other than that, I do agree that I am willing to admit that is exactly the type of life I decided to chose.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m pretty happy with my life in general, though I do have to decide what I’m going to do with my life after college

[Zack-Bann]

I’ve been actively pushing for the life I want
And life has pushed back in kind


So I’ve been battered and bruised and knocked down to my knees


But I’m still here and still fighting for a better tomorrow


If I die today I do so knowing I held nothing back and did all I could

[Hunter-40m]

There are somethings that you can change and can't change and I admit the things that I can't change it is wiser to do that but of course I dont mean that I dont do anything to increase my way of life and live better if there is opportunity to do that

[NathanDavis]

if I end up not moving out...

I'll definitely be more than fine with staying here in... Hellish, Texas

might be too hot during summers but... people are for sure worth it, lol

[OneViewpoint]

That is it in a nutshell. We all either actively choose change or passively fail to choose which is also a choice for nothing to change.

[exitseven]

When things in my life changed it usually involved unemployment or a fatal disease. i am sort of enjoying a calm before the inevitable storm.

[Anonymous]

Most things that happen are the result of your choices. Some things are random, or chance, or luck, but over time you are a product of the decisions you've made.

[Anonymous]

Nope, absolutely not.