What is the ONE thing you’d find MOST difficult if your gender was switched?

[Abbycado]

[SueShe]

Hmm, we are only allowed one single point and not 50-60? Where to start.

I presume it would have to be to think like a boy/guy/man and if you have followed my answers to those specific questions that this gender has asked, then there is not much more to explain. I will not dwell much more on that topic which is probably the one with the most number of male questions and insecurities.

I would not be happy at all if I had to switch gender, not even for one single hour. I am happy being who I am and don't need to switch.

Please leave me out of your plans 🤨

[Abbycado]

How big is it? XD

[SueShe]

Oops, I did not expect that one but I found something to illustrate what I was referring to 🫨

https://ibb.co/dZ31fvT

[Abbycado]

BAHAHAHA isn’t that the truth!! XD

[RandomGirl42]

Oh, this is a good question and I can get way lost into overthinking it. The first thing I wonder about is sexuality. Like, I'm gay. Would I still be gay if I was a guy? 🤔

And then my whole personality prolly wouldn't really work very well as a guy. I mean sometimes I can get away with things or skate by in life just by pretending to be cute and dumb. (Pure laziness) As a guy I don't think I could get away with it anymore.

[Abbycado]

You’d be a mesbian, I think?

[RandomGirl42]

🤣🤣🤣

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Think of it as a deeper dive into LGBTQ, now you get to experience the T !

[capriVib]

If I were a woman, the biological clock and that "expiration date" society puts on you would drive me crazy. I’d hate how the pressure to get married just skyrockets the moment you hit 30.

Plus, even if you’re killing it in your career, once you have a kid, the childcare is basically dumped on you, which totally kills your momentum at work. Trying to juggle all those milestones on such a tight deadline is a massive struggle.

[ohsheeT]

Standing up when I go to the bathroom room picking out a bra I would just go bra less

There's no way I'm going to spend time on my hair so I would shave it

I'm sure in another life I could have been a girl and maybe things were different.

But if what your asking happened tomorrow I would not be happy but would get through it and I would have to become a lesbian

[valentina4eva]

i think fitting in to the “man” role, where u aren’t supposed to be vulnerable, not allowed to cry, not supposed to have a support system or the bond i have with my girlfriends, everything just has to be stoic & solo & emotionless😅🥺😅


2nd would obvi be all the body changes because for sureeee i would have a 10” 🍆
🙈💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️

[emeraldsaphire]

It would be a lot harder control men XD I flirt with guys all the time to get better treatment. Honestly it's so natural for me I don't even notice I do it anymore. So if I became a dude and started flirting with men automatically. Yeah that might not end well XD

[Nikki1989]

Having to listen to other men feeding you nonsense advice 24/7. It is bad enough to read that BS on here.

[Abbycado]

True story

[ArrowheadSW]

@Nikki1989 Funny you bring that up because I do at times get dumb "advice" from other guys. Mostly it is married guys trying to give me dating advice. Most of it pertains to back when they were 25 and the advice no longer works for someone twice that age. LOL

[Nikki1989]

@ArrowheadSW Yes, it is disturbing how much immature advice is given by men over the age of forty. This only reinforces the belief that some men never grow up.

[AngryCarl3]

@Nikki1989 That would definitely suck if it ever happened.

[Natasha1995]

Having to behave like all boys do, being tough and trying to make us believe they have everything under control.

Shaving every day would be a pain in the... you know where.

[Abbycado]

Good points!

[Alex-Snow]

Good points Nat. Not all need to "be tough" but a lot do. Fortunately I only have to sg=have my face 2 times a week as I'm not too hairy. However random boners can be embarrassing at times as I'm sure you have noticed?

[Alex-Snow]

One positive thing about being a guy is that we can stand up to pee.

[CherryLove007]

@Alex-Snow also women can stand up and pee in the shower. bahahaha but I would say I like to take a load off an pee and relax at the same time hahaha

[Tarifa]

@CherryLove007 True. But then we don't have to bother with a cold toilet seat every time. Not really my idea of relaxing.

[Zack__NormalishDude]

@Alex-Snow Wieners for the win

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I really don't want to manage both harassment and clueless guys throwing themselves at me. Please don't do that to me I'm begging you.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Side note:
Gender switch AI fueled apps are fun to try, please consider their probably obnoxious privacy policy though. Especially in countries where laws are rather permissive on the matter.

[Abbycado]

Gender switch AI? Like photos?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Photo and video actually

[Abbycado]

God help us all.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Oh so you didn't know, well, if you feel like giving away your face, this kind of app can show you how you could look like as a guy

[Tarifa]

Apart from the obvious physical differences, maybe having to think about crossing our legs when we sit down.

[Abbycado]

You’ll be fine. It becomes second nature.

[Tarifa]

We would need a couple of days to adjust. It's just second nature for us not to.

[Abbycado]

I’ll give you a week’s pass.

[Tarifa]

LOL I think I would need more than a week to adjust to all the physical changes.

[aaron13547]

Peeing. My lifestyle allows me to use a tree a lot. And I feel like if like being a female would make that really, really inconvenient!

[Abbycado]

Yes. If a shrubbery is your restroom, it would indeed be a struggle.

[Tarifa]

That would be a pontentially painful situation. We guys don't need much out in the woods. Even a tree is not a requisite.

[Agape93]

To quote ellie from the last of us "how the hell do you walk around with that thing?"

[Abbycado]

Good question.

[ponderingpaul]

Carefully with the proper garments to restrain it. It’s awful

[Agape93]

That sucks man.

[ponderingpaul]

Definitely

[seabed8881]

walking is never really a problem, it's sitting, hence manspreading.

[Friendlybro79]

Getting hit on so much for being a friendlygirl. I'm already sick of it just thinking about it. Lol.

[Abbycado]

If I could switch account colors, lol. Life here would be easier.

[whosnumber_1]

I would agree with @Maybe_Maybe_not with the clueless guys. That and the whole menstrual and menopause thing... I think that would be a downer

[whosnumber_1]

What about you @Abbycado? What would you not like about being a guy?

[Abbycado]

Having to walk with that stuff between my legs like @Agape93 said.

[whosnumber_1]

That parts not so bad. I think there's probably worse things.

[Abbycado]

I can’t even imagine what it is like to have all that business just hanging there. 😐🔫

[whosnumber_1]

Ha! Well, I guess there's pros and cons. I would agree that on long runs it might be better to not have it. I wear some expensive underwear for running that helps a lot. Lol. But having boobs bouncing around would also be a pain.

I don't think for me the physical attachments are the problem it's more the hormone impact. Though guys do go through shit like erectile dysfunction and stuff like that

[Abbycado]

My boobs don’t bounce XD

[ponderingpaul]

It’s uncomfortable for sure

[whosnumber_1]

Well, I'm sure you wear some support doin triathlons. Lol

[Rei13]

My mind is only going to positives for switching, not that I would want to. I’m short so maybe that, but it would be funny to ask taller women to help me grab things off the top shelf.

[Xawyx-2]

Giving birth is probably very painful (unless they use some kind of anaesthetic), and periods of course, they are kinda obligatory.

[Abbycado]

You get used to them, lol.

[Xawyx-2]

Ok, I'll try XD

[Med_guy1978]

I don't know, I'd need to think about it but one thing is for sure. Most women would go into meltdown as they couldn't handle not having any attention anymore as men don't. They'd fall into depression having to work very very hard to get anywhere with a girl.

[CindyRuns]

Not getting to wear all the cute clothes that I love to wear !!!

[NicholasofAustralia]

@CindyRuns after all, you run hard for it, Cindy 🦶🏻👣👣🦶🏻

[LC75LC71]

Haha, all the love I'd get for having a pussy! Do better legs and feet come with the deal?

[Abbycado]

You get top notch appendages. XD

[LC75LC71]

Holy shit, then I'd "love myself" for at least the first day and then move on to.. Wait, knowing my luck I'd switch right into a period!

[Abbycado]

Yep, lmao. Your have period week right away! XD

[LC75LC71]

Not even matcha could save me! Oh noes..

[Abbycado]

Just wait until you itch your back the wrong way and it jumpstarts it.

[LC75LC71]

Yeah, so no deal even without the cunt punt.. I'll keep the good ol twig and berries.

[Abbycado]

Fair enough 👍

[LC75LC71]

Kool kool.

[Abbycado]

Check yourself tomorrow morning, just to be safe. 😬

[4ngelic]

i'd be probably seen as gay and effeminate, that would cause a lots of problems

[CherryLove007]

Having the proctologist check for prostate problems.

[Zack__NormalishDude]

Using a urinal/peeing would be much more difficult without my weenie 😂

This question immediately made me think of the movie Hot Chick - when the girl switches bodies and has to use a urinal next to men for the first time.

Would love seeing girls experience getting hit in the nuts for the first time.

[XXblack88]

Trying to be the main provider and keeping my emotions in check would take some getting used to for sure.

[rapfan107]

That time of the month and doing make up for hours 🤣

[Abbycado]

Lol, makeup doesn’t take hours. Especially if you don’t wear a lot, like me.

[rapfan107]

But still takes time 😕!! Have to cream, base atc then eyeliner 😳id be like nah I'm good !! I think id also struggled with boobs

[Abbycado]

There is another thing I can’t relate to lol. I’m basically flat. Not complaining!

[rapfan107]

Lol oh are you !! Well id probably have nice big ones 🤭 thats another thing id probably struggle with, that all unwanted male attention

[Abbycado]

This is not a problem for me, lol. The big ones. I get the male attention, regardless. 🙄

[rapfan107]

Well you're lucky 🤭id struggle with the attention!! I'd be like mf the fk you're looking at hu

[CubaPirate]

Periods obviously but childbirth would be a close 2nd

[Abbycado]

One is obligatory, the other is not, thankfully.

[CubaPirate]

Yes thats the reason for my placements lol

[dougeats]

Taking care of my hair lol I buzz cut now so it's easy. But if I had long hair... well like yours, I imagine it takes forever to make it look nice

[Thecubs22]

Well I'm a guy so it would have to be pregnant of course.

[Abbycado]

That’s not obligatory tho.

[Thecubs22]

Just being a woman in general?

[Abbycado]

Yes, something that you’d have to deal with.

[Thecubs22]

Most difficult if I was switched to a woman right?

[Abbycado]

In your mind.

[Thecubs22]

Feminism or something like that. I don't know?

[Abbycado]

Sure, if you think you’d have to be a feminist.

[Thecubs22]

I don't know what else to say. You win

[convo_king89]

Not able to pee everywhere. Periods. Be an easy target to get knocked up.

[Levin]

Getting fucked doesn't sound so fun.

[Abbycado]

Lots of variables there.

[Levin]

I know women enjoy it. But I like doing the fucking.

[MrChinaski]

@Levin I would be into that.

[OneViewpoint]

Well I wouldn't be looking forward to a menstrual cycle for 40 years, that's for sure.

[Anonymous]

@Abbycado well 👀 you know

It.

🩸 I'm just not a fan of that time of the month

[Hunter-40m]

Getting used to my new look and the acts I need to be careful about this New look and feautures

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

I could say periods, but for the sake of variety I’ll instead say catcalling and strangers staring.

[fawkstayne]

being able to stop masturbating ever. if i was a chick yeah

[AngryCarl3]

Shaving every inch of my body (except my head).

[loveslongnails]

How could I possibly know that now? LOL

[Abbycado]

You’re supposed to guess what ya might think it would be.

[loveslongnails]

My guess is it would be men's presumptive attitudes.

[Sweetdreams1950]

Not wearing make-up

[LiamJHayden]

The monthly curse.

[AgentG111]

One thing? All of it!

[Amur8711]

Dealing with the periods im sure.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Breastfeeding lmao

[ponderingpaul]

I’d be upset at the sudden lack of muscle.

[Paige2006]

Always trying to hide an erection

[Alex-Snow]

That sounds like me!

[ponderingpaul]

They pop up whenever they want, they are a pain

[ginger_snap]

This! Not being so easy to hide when you're aroused.

[Paige2006]

@ginger_snap Many guys like it to show

[MrChinaski]

20% lower wages.

[llorando]

Writing my name in the snow!

[Biscoff3030]

Peeing 😂😂

[Abbycado]

Lol, it’s not that difficult. No aiming. Just sit and go.

[Biscoff3030]

No like we men can stand and pee with completely removing our pants whereas you all have to sit then take of your pants then panties 😂. Its hell lot of work

[mrkdvsn]

Peeing standing up

[oldman26]

Saying no