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Do you dwell more on the past or focus more on the future?

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  • sage2021
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    Master Age: 71 , mho 54%
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    I've stopped dwelling on my past. I've worked through all of that stuff! I'm not carrying around any old baggage around with me anymore and not for many years.

    I look to my future what's left of it.

    NEVER BE A PRISONER OF YOUR PAST
    IT WAS JUST A LESSON, NOT A LIFE SENTENCE!

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      Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧡

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  • queenofcardio
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    1 mo
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    I focus more on the future.

    I can't erase the past. I can only grow from it.

    There's no point in driving myself crazy dwelling on past mistakes or failures..

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  • ohsheeT
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    Master Age: 41 , mho 62%
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    All I have is today that's it yesterday is gone it's over with there's nothing I can do about it I'm too late today is all I have tomorrow is not here yet so why dwell on it focus on today be the best you could be today and be happy everything else is just a waste not unless you're trying to grow from it

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  • ThaCuriousGuy007
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    1 mo

    I dwell on the past a lot, i'm always thinking about what I couldve done differently and i'm also focusing on the future cos thats unwritten and is happening in the momment.

    I dwell on past relationships, jobs, people I've known and wonder of a lot of things, which are distractions I guess for me, but what i've done in the past can't be undone and i should now move forward and not make those mistakes again but to do things differently for a better outcome

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  • OneViewpoint
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    Guru Age: 60 , mho 46%
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    646 opinions shared on Other topic.

    I try to...

    • Learn from the past.
    • Stay focused in the present.
    • Plan for the future.

    All three have value. But my priority is always the here and now.

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  • midnightmoon05
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    Master Age: 46 , mho 46%
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    Mostly on the present and some future ideas.
    the past? No no… I don’t like to waste time… I might think about it… but never regret or dwell for too long.

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  • Simslover92
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    Master Age: 34 , mho 38%
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    It used to be the past. Now it's mostly the future but I try not to dwell too much or too long on the future because it's ultimately best to try to be in the present moment and taking every moment in.

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  • Nikki1989
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    Mentor Age: 37 , mho 31%
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    7.3K opinions shared on Other topic.

    There is nothing in my past to dwell on except some amazing memories, but even then, I don't dwell on them. Life is too short, and tomorrow is another day.

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  • Static_In_The_Attic
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    Master Age: 44 , mho 40%
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    The past is the past, the future is the future & as for me I focus on the present.

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  • FreyaRed
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    Master Age: 25 , mho 44%
    1 mo
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    Future. I just use experiences from the past to analyze my current issues.

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  • andreasderjuengere
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    Master Age: 62
    1 mo
    4.7K opinions shared on Other topic.

    I don't dwell, actually.
    But I take strength from the past to manage the present; whilst considering the future.

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  • NathanDavis s
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    Master Age: 35 , mho 33%
    1 mo
    9.5K opinions shared on Other topic.

    I move on...

    got shi to do... and places to go, too

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  • AgentG111
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    1 mo
    311 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Depends on the day. 50/50 or what's happening in the day/night that brings up a good or bad memory and what to do or not do in a certain situation.

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  • AngryCarl3
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    Xper 7 Age: 66
    1 mo
    326 opinions shared on Other topic.

    The older I get the more I'm in the past. The future looks pretty bleak to be honest. Buckle up, things are gonna get rough.

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  • Alex-Snow
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    1 mo
    568 opinions shared on Other topic.

    I try to learn from the past and my past mistakes but focus on the here and now as well as the future

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  • exitseven
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    I look ahead. Thr past cannot be changed. All we can do is learn from it.

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  • ammar12343
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    Xper 5 Age: 31 , mho 35%
    1 mo

    I focus too much on the future

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  • thegreenyogi
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    412 opinions shared on Other topic.

    I don't dwell on the past at all.

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  • loveyouoak
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    1 mo
    603 opinions shared on Other topic.

    I dwell more on the past. What about you?

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  • clearskiess
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    Xper 5 Age: 23
    1 mo

    At some point yes i dwell on the past

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  • dudeinohio
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    1 mo
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    A lot of the past, unfortunately

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  • Shrimpenjoyer
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    1 mo

    Unfortunately I do dwell on the past a lot

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  • Amur8711
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    1 mo
    404 opinions shared on Other topic.

    I probably dwell on the past more.

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    I do both equally.

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