Most Painful thing happened to you in life?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

There has been too many to even count

But the most painful one is not understanding

Life

That there are going to be moments or s omething will happen it wants to break you destroy you smash you into the ground like a cigarette butt

And not knowing this is just part of life that you will make it you will survive and you will keep going

All it is is a learning experience

It is to teach you that you are wise that you are strong that you have the wisdom to get through it no matter what

But it will only happen if you wanted to and when you understand all the above you can hold your head up high and understand it all and walk through it and accept it it's a part of life you are stronger than you believe you are smarter than you believe

It only hurts as long as you want it to it's your choice

And that doesn't mean you have to be cold that doesn't mean that you have to forget about it it means that you are human and you are strong you are powerful and it's okay to cry it's okay to feel it's okay to mourn it's okay to say you were wrong

Brush yourself off and keep going forward

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Breaking up with one particular girlfriend.
I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. But when I was 36, I met a 30 year old and fell completely in love. We lived together for two years and I would have gladly spent the rest of my life with her. But it turned out that we could not have made it as life-long partners and wound up separating for reasons that are too complicated to explain but had nothing to do with cheating or anything mean. We still loved each other.

Being separated from her was the worse pain I have ever experienced in my life. It was worse than the death of my mom.
I felt like I had the breath knocked out of me. At times I felt nauseous. When I was alone, I sometimes curled up all bawled. It was unbearable.
It took me a year to recover and move on with my life.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Seeing my 17 year old son on life support in the hospital dying from Bacterial Meningitis, and heart infection and blood poisoning.

He ended up having emergency open heart surgery and was in the hospital for 76 days.

It wasn't until almost a year later that he remembered that his caregiver stabbed him in his back on his spine. I immediately took him to 2 doctors that day and they confirmed that they were scars from a knife.🔪

That finally answered my question about how did he get blood poisoning.

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

If my Dad died it would probably be that. Recently the most painful experience was losing my older cat. We took him to the vet regularly. He got bloodwork etc done which was ‘normal’ and then he just declined out of nowhere. We found out he had cancer and had to euthanize him, any treatment would not have cured him and caused him a lot of pain.

Anonymous · Answer

If we're talking physical pain then when I fell down this REALLY big flight of stairs in a school field trip and quite literally broke every single bone in my body and even had to relearn how to walk. This was when I was 14.

If we're talking mental or emotional pain then when my first serious girlfriend broke up with me. We actually stayed together for about 5 or 6 years. I was so damn sure we were gonna spend the rest of our lives together but very gradually we found out we weren't all that compatible.

I was actually still willing to work things out more, perhaps trying out couples therapy and the such or changing our overall approaches, but she wanted to end it right there and then and she did. I'm still not totally over it honestly.

Honestly in the long run my girlfriend breaking up with me hurt way more than all the broken bones and relearning to walk. I've completely healed since the stairs incident meanwhile thinking about my ex still gets me frustrated.

Nikki1989 · Answer

In terms of time to recover, being involved in a car accident was the most painful. It took 6 months to fully recover, but the first 2 months were extremely difficult. Other than that, I had to have life-saving surgery (Ludwigs Angina).

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Physically, it was having an infected tooth extracted. The infection kept the anesthetic from taking full effect, and the root was still pretty healthy and strong. So i felt everything while the doctor was breaking my tooth apart and pulling it out in pieces.
The anesthetic wore off completely before i could fill my prescription for pain pills and i was literally blinded by pain.
Emotionally, i had to be the person who decided to take my father off of life support. Worst day of my life.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Over 20 years ago, I had the most severe back pain I've ever had!! I called up my chiropractor and told him, "Either cure me or kill me! I really don't care which!!"
About a decade later, I had a milder bout with it. It was also really bad but nowhere near as bad as the previous one!

AviatorTom · Answer

Several years ago, I had a kidney stone. It was painful for days until it finally passed. I was amazed how small the stone was, but it had sharp pointed corners that caused the pain

Billlewis · Answer

Waiting for years for the love of my life to come along, only for her to say 'No'. I married a great lady earlier this year, but you can never really get over the love of your life, no matter how awesome the one you're with is.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

The love of my life lost his mind…  mental illness

laraWM · Answer

When the husband of my mom killed my dog, or when I fell from the bike really hard and hit the face

exitseven · Answer

The day my father died. It was totally unexpected and I never thought of him as being old. There was a lot going on in my life anyway and this was just the worst thing imaginable.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Getting dumped on valentines day, at same time as her announcing a pregnancy. Then a miscarriage 2 weeks later. Hard few weeks

OneViewpoint · Answer

It's still happening to me. Every moment of every day. I'm surrounded by idiots.

msc545 · Answer

The most painful thing that happened to me in my life was permanently losing my daughter.

genericname85 · Answer

I'd say unrequited love. No physical pain can reach the level of emotional pain.

AngryCarl3 · Answer

Any time masking my Asperger's Syndrome broke down.

In_Trance · Answer

The realization that each and everyone of us is going to work over half our lives for the government. Makes me fucking sick just typing that

Butterfly2050 · Answer

Talking to white boy from California who was bragging about his dick while being tiny

robocop666 · Answer

the times I got so sick I thought I wan gonna die. Happened 2 times.

tiredpanda · Answer

Losing a loved one.

EmmaMary · Answer

Giving birth to our two children.

Kvass · Answer

Losing a loved one.😖❤️

Agape93 · Answer

Jaw and hips got dislocated

PixieFairyBtch · Answer

Can’t bring myself to talk about it. Hbu?

dudeinohio · Answer

My divorce. But in the end, i have a better life.

fish5505_87 · Answer

my mother past away when I was 10.

Laulenke · Answer

Sorry to long of a list to get into

NathanDavis · Answer

loss...

Anonymous · Answer

Lost 4 cousins in a house fire

Iron_Man · Answer

Death

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