What is something you think is really hard to find in the opposite gender?

[Anonymous]

I think paranoia or hyper vigilance is hard to find in a woman, they all just seem to walk around the world with no problem, not a care in the world, they just jolly their way anywhere at any time, even like at 2am I see them just walking by themselves to who knows where, like dude I'm worrier for you, go home, your existence out here at this time makes me nervous for you, there's nothing even open at this time, I hope they are embracing their second amendment ngl 😂

[MemeSupreme]

chico, thats bc you’re in miami and seeing a specific group of people lol most of us are cautious and vigilant. like its been reinforced our ENTIRE lives to be careful bc of our own experiences and others since childhood

and a guy who doesn’t hog the covers is pretty hard ngl lmaoo

[Asker]

Hog the covers, get a bigger cover lol

[valentina4eva]

woww im just learning that im not actually a woman, because i for sureee would be hypervigilant & paranoid if i was walking home by myself at 2am!!😲😱


for an actual answer: i think it’s harder to find emotional maturity & emotional vulnerability in men nowadays!!😲 or maybee it’s just where i live😅

[Asker]

Well that's normal for a barbie 💀

And yea it is, cause it depends on how they are raised and nowadays good parents are rarer lol

[valentina4eva]

ohh ofc lol💃🏻💅

yess truu🙃 nowadays parents are an ipad lol

[Asker]

Yea pretty much 😂

[Kingofkings1992]

Emotional vulnerability goes against literally everything that society attempts to influence us about the way men are supposed to act and behave. Not saying that it SHOULD be that way, but it is

[valentina4eva]

@Kingofkings1992 yess truu🤔 it’s hard for me to really conceptualize, but i know that’s a big diff between how we are socialized differently!!🤔💯 i just feel like it was always soo impossible for me to know how men i’ve been with were thinking or feeling😲 but maybe i just have to deal lol

[capriVib]

Empathy. They never seem capable of understanding what a man is going through or the struggles he's dealing with.

[Kingofkings1992]

I'd say men's lack of empathy towards women's struggles is more common than the other way around, if I'm being completely frank

[capriVib]

Women may score higher on general empathy tests, but that doesn't automatically mean they're more empathetic toward men's struggles. Those are two different things.

[ThunderWings]

Follow-through. Authenticity.

Somehow the type of girls I'm into usually lack the ability to follow-through.

[Anonymous]

A man that expresses his feelings when he feels sad seems uncommon to find.

[Asker]

Yes that would be because the majority of society sees it as a weakness, a decent amount of men have at some point done so and it didn't bring good results, then others learn from the ones that do and then there's those that they don't care to express sadness, to many it's easier to just suck it up until it goes away lol

[queenofcardio]

A man like me

[Asker]

Why wouldn't someone like you, you seem chill to me 💯

[queenofcardio]

No. I mean a man exactly like me lol. Personality wise. Haha thanks 😊

[Asker]

Oh okay that makes more sense 😂💯

[queenofcardio]

There are a lot of quiet guys lol and I'm rarely ever quiet 😂

[Asker]

Oh well talking sucks, but you know what they say (I made it up) every quiet guy needs someone that talks a lot, after all that means the quiet guy can talk less 😂

[queenofcardio]

Lol that's usually my relationship dynamic, as long as he can speak up in situations where it's a must and can communicate well

[queenofcardio]

I also think some quiet guys don't like loud women 🤔

[queenofcardio]

Or very extroverted women

[Asker]

So you want someone that can be loud too, cause I don't think many quiet guys care, maybe they even prefer it so the attention is never really on them 🤔

[queenofcardio]

I don't really care as long as they don't try to change me

[Asker]

Yea that's fair, so how loud are you, 1-10? 😂

[queenofcardio]

Lol I grew up with a lot of people so it was never quiet. I got used to it 😂

[queenofcardio]

You could probably laughing if you walk into a room

[queenofcardio]

* hear me laughing

[Asker]

Yea i get that, I'm Hispanic, we are loud people lol so I know what you mean, my people are loud in general

[queenofcardio]

Yes same lol 😆

[Kingofkings1992]

Authenticity. In general, girls tend to be the more fake ones

[Phoenix98]

These days thick skin and common sense.

[Asker]

Lol fair

[rgb008]

A man with a collection as vast as mine

[Anonymous]

To drive a car well lol. Gone anon to avoid the hate lol

[Asker]

Damn 💀

[Kingofkings1992]

Stereotype lol. Women are not worse drivers. They just don't have as good of spatial awareness. Men are much likely to cause a fatal accident than women

[Anonymous]

*opposite sex

[Asker]

No lol

[KostasKouvalis]

Conservative values