Where should I move: stay near family, live by the beach, or choose Nashville?

[JazzieJanna]

I am so used to moving due to family. But.. ever since I was a kid I been wanting to live by the beach.. but since I was an elementary school I been wanting to live in Nashville. Now it may be a year or two years or maybe three who knows haven't decided which year either.. because I need to get focused and get my life in order and some other stuff..
But where should I move to?

Here my thoughts :
Family : supportive encouragement my animals including my horse , etc
( But I don't wanna rely on them my whole life u know what I mean). But it not that bad to live with ur family

My state. well the state I'm in. Not sure if I should stay in the city where my two churches are... or should move

The beach : well don't really need to say anything about that

Nashville tn : ... Nothing to say about that either


I mean don't get me wrong I love traveling
But where should I move to?

Beach

My city aka my state

Nashville tn

My family

Updates

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Yes I know.. long vacaation but also maybe thinking to move to Europe to Ireland or scotland or to England or to france etc or maybe the bahamas.. I just wanna settle down and travel world wide. I just am looking for some intakes on what y'all think the pros and the cons

[purplepoppy]

You've already answered your own question. Go live in Nashville for a while then move to the coast and live by the beach for a bit. Then when you're ready get a house near your family.

If you do head to the UK the west coast gives you the more natural beaches, consider Devon and Cornwall in England. Pembrokeshire wales is similar with daily ferries to Ireland and English widely spoken. The west of Scotland is definitely prettier than the east in my opinion. The west coast of Ireland is surprisingly warm all year round. Avoid London or anywhere near it.

[ohsheeT]

Only you can answer that question you have to weigh things out

Life is short

There's different types of happiness you have to pick which ones more important to you

What is going to keep you happy what is going to keep you going will you always wish that you would have done the opposite of what you did

You will figure it out weigh it out right down pros and cons on a piece of paper

[Beatriz90]

I don't think you need to rush into making a decision just yet. You have three things pulling you in different directions: the comfort and support of your family, your dream of living by the beach, and your childhood dream of moving to Nashville. I'd recommend spending the next year or two getting yourself financially and emotionally prepared for independence. If possible, visit each place and spend some time there before deciding. Consider where you could afford to live comfortably, find a job, make friends, and build the kind of life you want. Remember, living with your family while working toward independence doesn't mean you're not growing. It's okay to appreciate their support while preparing to stand on your own feet.

Don't choose a place simply because it's familiar, but don't choose one just because you've dreamed about it for years, either. Choose the place that best fits the future you want to create for yourself.

[Iron_Man]

You’ve got too many things going on all at once it takes money to do that kind of stuff. I think you better take it one day at a time and choose one location and then after you settled in take it from there. If you move away from America, you’re gonna lose a lot of things how are you gonna work in a foreign country and have rights?

[purplepoppy]

Might surprise you that you have rights in other countries too. As for work just get one of those online jobs where you work from home. Perhaps her current job gives her that option.

[Iron_Man]

@purplepoppy You couldn’t vote. And how am I gonna get a work permit in a foreign country? And working online is not very likely for most people. And what about the banking? I don’t trust it in a foreign country. For example, I would never move to Nicaragua and live there. I wouldn't trust The Sandinistas. Putting my money in the Nicaraguan bank account or Columbia. I have rights in America. I feel secure here. But don’t get me wrong. I love traveling and I like traveling to foreign countries. I guess I would have to work a job like your Job taking care of sheep and helping you out and they give me money underneath the table but how long can that last before somebody says something Where’s your paperwork?

[purplepoppy]

You can still vote in American elections by post and as for local elections doesn't matter who gets in because they're all shit anyway. Banking tends to be trustworthy in developed countries and visas aren't hard to get.

[Iron_Man]

@purplepoppy you would have to take me under your Wing for a little while, for example if I moved to your part of the woods. I probably would have to do the same kind of work you’re doing. Because that’s what I’m used to doing working with my hands. And you would have to get me to trust the banking system until I can feel comfortable and get on my feet. But I also can do white collar work because I’ve done that many times when bidding on jobs.

[purplepoppy]

What's your line of work?

[Iron_Man]

@purplepoppy Building , wood, fences, pressure, cleaning, painting, houses remodeling things in the kitchen and buildingdrawers. Believe it or not it makes real good money, painting houses in Miami. You can make $4000 off of a house and be done within two weeks or less. I can also work with animals because I love animals and I used to be a greyhound racing dog owner and I would go out and train my dog at the kennel

[purplepoppy]

I think it would be fairly easy to work almost anywhere in that line of work. I know a few guys who do same stuff and they're never short of work and on decent money

[Iron_Man]

@purplepoppy That would be great if they paid me underneath the table, but what if they pay me through a check then I have to report it to your government or they would find out, then I have to be legalized to work in your country and what if they tell me I have to be here for a certain amount of years to be approved? But I’m glad to hear that my line of work is very successful in your country. 😊 I also respect the work that you’re doing. I like that a good down to earth wholesome working girl and like I said before I love animals. 😊

[Nikki1989]

The only decent thing about Nashville is the music scene; otherwise, it is a hole. Head to the beach instead.

[queenofcardio]

You can have a long vacation.. Why move if it's not necessary

[JazzieJanna]

Because I don't know where I wanna start my journey hell.. maybe even out of the country

[TonyMetal___1986]

Wherever you like and wherever it makes you happy but always keep close to your family, hoping that someday you'll get married and have your own family...

[bowenw]

I think it depends on a few things, including where you can find work and afford to live.

[JazzieJanna]

I haven't mentioned in my post that I'm not sure when I'm leaving

[bowenw]

Try to imagine what your life would be like in all the places you are considering. Try to visit them to help you decide.

[exitseven]

Move to the beach. When you are older you will regret not doing this.

[slatyb]

Everyone I knew that moved to Nashville hated it.

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, it truly sucks ass.

[slatyb]

@Nikki1989 After a year or so they all moved out. Robbie Fulks wrote a song about it titled ¨F This Town¨

[JazzieJanna]

What was so bad about it if I may ask