Girls, do you like talkative guys?

[Anonymous]

seems like whenever I talk to girls they just giggle and smile always but they don't talk much,how do I know that I am not annoying to them ?

[aMuse]

I think the really talkative guys that don't shut up, come off like they are full of themselves/arrogant/cocky. They don't know how to listen and really are showing no interest in the girl. Some girls like that, other girls don't. I'm personally reserved but confident, I can talk for days if I want, but I'm usually relatively quite. When it comes to conversation, it's more about the quality of the conversation, then the quantity. You don't need to fill her ear with everything that's happening all the time, but when you do talk to her it should be interesting and leave her wanting more. I find that this intrigues a lot of women, they get the entire he's mysterious feeling, and it plays on their curiosity. Then they can't wait to figure you out and they will make an effort to get to know you. Then you're not blabbering on about yourself by your own doing, it's her striving to drag it out of you. At the same time you ask her about herself and it's kind of a trade. She wants to know things, and she needs to pay by telling you things. If there's good chemistry between you, and some common ground a good bond will form.

[Asker]

quite a handful girls do talk back like you can have two way conversation,but other girls just smile or giggle they don't really talk unless you keep asking questions

[aMuse]

I know... I just see so many guys that are really talkative trying to run game on a lot of girls. Every time they see her they don't let up. The girls are nice to the guy because they don't want to be rude, but they don't like him. He becomes more like a girlfriend to come talk to about things, rather then a man she wants to be with. Just saying...

[comeback]

idk but no one likes a person who talks too much. I m currently seeing a girl who never shuts up and I am considering a murder

[aMuse]

lol

[Anonymous]

I hate people (in general) that talk ALL the time. I want some quiet so I think. But I like people that are talkative as long as they don't talk all the time.

I don't know about other girls but when I'm annoyed I show it or just tell then to shut up(with a nicer way usually)

If you're not talking ALL the time then you're probably not annoying.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Depends on what. If it's about himself then hell no but if's about mutual interests and interesting topics then I'm all ears. I'd appreciate that because it would make me more at ease to talk as well and no awkward silences.

[Anonymous]

maybe your look and the way you speak just make them think you are just a cute person. so they are not really into your words. just like when adults listen to a pretty boy speak... by the way are you a cute guy?