Are sweet girls boring?

[Anonymous]

I get told I have a "sweet" personality all the time. I'm nice and polite to everyone, especially adults out of respect. I'm shy at first, but when I get to know someone I have no problem making fun of them lol. From what I've seen, guys seem to like the girls that tease them and joke around with them. I can do that too, but only when I get to know someone. I'm just not comfortable teasing people unless I know them. Does that combined with my shyness cause me to be overlooked by guys?

[journeyman1126]

I don't know. I was raised Midwestern. Speak when I'm spoken to, don't make a big deal of myself, don't pick on the other kids. Polite, to a fault.

I think that I'm too sweet in relationships, don't really do much to stand out in a crowd in public either, so I've been told by more vampy girls I've dated that I'm boring.

There have also been a lot of very nice girls who loved being with me and didn't have problems staying interested.

There's a saying that fits this question: "If you're bored, then you're boring."

You are not responsible for entertaining someone else. If that's all your relationship is based on then you're involved with a child who is overstimulated by pop culture, video games, and Girls Gone Wild, or whatever this month's equivalent is.

You should feel free to take men less seriously and poke fun when appropriate - at everyone, regardless of age or social status. We all appreciate someone who treats us like we're on the same level. Being too polite can leave you waiting for the other person to take charge of the conversation, and that gets old.

But by no means, should you change who you are just to be entertaining. Those annoying brat girls are good for sex. That's about it. Could you imagine being a man trapped in a relationship with them, wandering around with them, watching them insult everyone you meet? Not me.

[wendykoul]

good answer!

[journeyman1126]

Thanks for the BA!

(and the bump)

[moviedude714]

not really, it's usually sweet guys that are boring, hence why nice-guys finish last

[titoloco]

Are sweet girls boring? Affirmative. You can have all the "goodies" but if you can't show it in a "Fun" and "Playful" way you will always come second to last.

[Anonymous]

no . but I'm ugly and desperate , so any girl will do