This girl seems interested but doesn't want to hook-up?

[Anonymous]

SO this girl drops me a lot of signs and stuff that she's interested in me but every time I kinda jokingly bring up hooking up, she acts like she doesn't want to or she says something like "You Wish :P". what's going on with her?

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+1 y

by hook up I mean make out not sure if that changes anything.

[Anonymous]

You sould like a disgusting pig. Like one of those insecure whores from Jersey Shore who feels the need to put titles on themselves like 'MVP'; the a**holes who go out and find girls to sexually objectify so that they can feel cool.

Excuse her for wanting to be more than someone's hook up. Saying that making out is hooking up makes making out sound so sleazy and trashy. Making out should be something cute and intimate, but people like you f***ing ruin it by devaluing it to the word "hooking up" a.k.a. something casual that you just do for the hell of it. You're making yourself look bad bringing up "when are we hooking up" comments all the time. If I even had a remote interest in a guy, I'd think he was a f***ing pig and lose it quick after he said that.

[Anonymous]

women don't just want to hook up, be it just making out, because most guys think that will lead somewhere else, and she prob doesn't want to lead you on, she doesn't want you to think she is easy, and she probably wants you to like her for HER, not juswt for "hooking up." no matter what your defintion of that is.

[RedSmartie]

Well duh, she doesn't just want a relationship. She wants more. Any girl with sense would turn a guy she likes down when he asks for a hook up or a makeout session or any detached physical intimacy because she knows he just wants to take advantage of her affections to get off.

[h20poloplayer]

Could be confidence issues, game playing, or literally hundreds of other explanations depending on the specific circumstances. Not enough detail to call this one, in my opinion.

[OldboyJon]

take her out on adate first lol you can't really know girls like this are skecthy or just a tease who knows I wouldn't say pressure her but invte her over to your place to watch a moive or something lol

[Anonymous]

I agree with the other women. She doesn't want to "hook up". She might want to go out on a date with you. If you like her like that, then ask her out and you will know. I see you are under 18 so maybe hang out with her after school, do some studying together, watch a video at someones house. Good Luck!

[courtney06]

Stop saying hook up or anything that sounds like it. She'll think you're trying to use her. If you really want her, take her out on a date and get to know her. Doesn't have to be a generic date, just find something you're both interested in.

[Lunaipse]

She wants a relationship. The reason she says things like 'you wish :P' is because you bring it up jokingly so she's taking it as a joke and not seriously.

[prittyprincess]

well she clearly doesn't want a hook up! hahaha she wants a relationship ;) if you really care about her you should ask her out :)

[stillagoodgirl]

Maybe she's a humble girl that wants a relationnship not some one time fling!

[Anonymous]

She probably likes you and wants more than just a hook up and doesn't want to ruin anything.

[Anonymous]

maybe she's not comfortable with that yet or ready for it, she could also be a virgin.

[Opinion Owner]

@update she could just be teasing you

[Anonymous]

You guys are young and hook ups aren't and shouldn't be common.She deserves better and so do you

[Deft_maiden]

She wants to date first not a makeout session.

[trubeliever]

She is scared of commitment.

[harveykinkle]

LOL! at what girls said vs. what one guy said!

[mashura]

She wants a relationship not a hookup