Gf enjoys sex in public places and pda but unsure about Same room sex

Question

hi,

i am guy and I have a steady girlfriend of 7 years.

recently we have been talking about a lot fantasies and experimentation.

one of them is 'same room sex'

we had a lot of sex in public places likem an elevator, college building, dorm roof top, her balcony, in my car, in a train, college washroom etc.

she gets a lot of thrill doing it outside by the fear getting caught or seen, as did i.

so I decided to take it to the next level and suggested 'same room sex'

but now she is unsure about it and does not really look interested.

although she stated she has no problem going to nudist resort on a getaway vacation.

so I am unable to comprehend her thoughts about it.

any suggestions? thoughts? opinions?

worzt · Accepted Answer

ypu mean same room whe other people is around I guess? my Girlfriend and I have done it in public too, we had "same room sex once" but she was really shy about it, even if her roommate was nonchalant about it when she and her Boyfriend did it there with my girl as witness.

I guess is not same thrill, in public SOMEONE my watch you, while in a shared room it will be a FRIEND or ACCUITANCE, and that is a bigger ask, that was her roommate, but she has never tried it say, in my friends appartment, eve if she do not care about them she do not want them as witnesses of our doings.

how would you have sex in a shared room but with people you don't know? I thought some time to take my girl to a sauna in a spa I know is permissive to sex stuff (I saw a couple doing it in the main area), there are these "privates" not main area but still like for 5 people, I don't care a lot about same room sex but I guess it could be there, I would not see it as public sex really so it won't be the same thrill, but also won't be like a hotel room, so it won't be the same privacy, the time I thought about it was one in which there was no place to go and money was running short, I was like "semiprivate is cheaper tan a hotel room" but I saw it as LESSS than a room instead of "kind of public rush"

Racez · Accepted Answer

I think perhaps there's not thrill in same room sex. There's no throb of adventure in it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My thoughts? Same room sex is sleazy and trashy. It crosses the line of sexy, delectable enticement right into plain out of control sleazy. If someone were to see, she would look like a whore who lets her vagina control her even if it means doing something stupid and that's probably why she doesn't want to do it. I don't blame her, I'd never do it; that's going too far. That's just plain nasty.