Do Girls like to be held?.

[zeke1987]

I just wanted to ask if Girls like to be held in bed when you go to sleep, and around the hips when stading, I love holding girls in bed.

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Wow I just want to say thank you for all the answers, there all well appreciated I just have to say I have never rubbed a girl when where going to sleep other times maybe not when going to sleep.


Normally I just put my left arm near her neck and she lays on my left arm which kills after a while but don't mind if she's comfy, and I leave my right arm on her belly or hips that's what I mostly do. But I also love a girl to lay on my chest it depends on what makes you comfortable that night.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the individual person. I like to be held (spooned) when I go to sleep, but I know some people just need their space or else they can't go to sleep. With my ex it was perfect because we were both sleep-cuddlers. I remember one time distinctively when I woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't go back to sleep. I was laying on my side, facing away from my ex. He was asleep on his back. Suddenly, he turned on his side and pulled me towards him and I stroked his arm and fell asleep. I don't know if he was actually totally awake when he did that, but it made me feel so warm on the inside.

[cupcake2288]

I love it. Holding me in public or even at home makes me feel like you want to be near me and that I'm wanted. I like cuddling in bed, but sometimes that's not how I want to fall asleep. So it's more like pre-sleep cuddling. Sometimes if I'm comfortable enough I'll fall asleep cuddling though.

[labbie87]

Held and cuddled...I only dream of such a thing...

[kholland65]

Most girls loves this stuff in the right amounts, but there is probably about 20% or so of women who really just don't like being touched all that much, especially in bed.

One thing I would be curious about (maybe some girls can comment), is whether or not girls prefer spooning in bed or the guy laying on his back and her cuddled under his arm with her hands his chest? Like this link

[thanhiii]

I love to be touched - I'm very affectionate even towards my girl friends. The only time I don't like to be touched is probably when it's too hot - weather wise lol. I do like spooning - and even the one you mentioned with the girl cuddled up in his arm. I actually also don't mind when I'm on my back and it's vice versa :)

[kholland65]

Again, most women are like you thanhiii, but I've run across a couple that just don't like to cuddle when trying to sleep. It's not the majority, but they do exist.

[saysrae]

i prefer the second probs, but I like both

[Anonymous]

Yes! girls require to be held, touched admired...any attention you give her, will be well appricated...infact, the more you do so, possible the more she will fall for you if she liked you in the first place...but deny her a little at first...this makes her crazy for you..and when you do give her that desired affection...sparks will fly, and you probably won't ever lose her...kudos for you...most guys just roll over...lol

[kholland65]

simple but spot on answer.

[Anonymous]

Yes, girls generally like to be held and cuddled if you can manage it, but some guys feel trapped into hugging or holding a girl and prefer to just flip over and go to sleep... and some girls are like that too. Just make sure you know what type of girl you're with.

[Daph81]

totally! what girl doesn't like to cuddle? But it depends on the mood in the moment though. If she's had a hard day then she might want to have some space.

[cun7n1nja]

I do, yes and yes. Especially in bed. I'm very much a sleep cuddler. I might roll away if I get too warm, but I always come back and still always have to touch, lol, even if it's just feet to feet.

[kady4e]

I (really) wish the guy I like could do that to me :(

[Anonymous]

yes, I love it, but when it comes to standing, it really depends on where we are, and if its hot or not. too much PDA is not my thing.

and sleep cuddling, haven't yet experienced that before, but I think I would love it too.

[Coffinspire]

Most of the time yes. If I'm really tired and just want to go to sleep I like my space on my side of the bed.

[justme20]

standing yes, in bed no. Even in my sleep my boyfriend will try to cuddle and I will tell him to get off me lol

[sef0181]

Yes in bed, not always when standing. Depends on place and who all is around/how often you do it. Excessive PDA makes me uncomfortable.

[Sexydncr]

I Love being held and cuddled. Make me feel so warm and safe and cozy lol. I'll fall for any guy into cuddling

[earthlyangelic1]

Spooning is oh so wonderful when drifting off. It makes a girl feel protected,warm, secure, and best of all, loved or cared for. :)

[mm53912011]

yes and yes. Some like me like to be held and hugged but don't overdo though.

[Moonrisekitten]

yes! love it. one of the best feelings in the world. any girl that doesn't love being held is crazy

[may04]

You bet! :) I wish I had someone to do that for me right now

[Alexias]

I do, but when I go to sleep it can feel weird for me, perhaps I'm not yet used to it.

[emzy-89]

Can't speak for all girls, but yes, I like it when a guy holds me. :)

[Anonymous]

I love feeling a boyfriend's arms around me, of course. It's loving, comforting, warm and sweet :-)

[Anonymous]

yes most of the time. Sometimes there are times when I just want my own space but I like being held my a guy.

[Anonymous]

Yes of course we do , But when a guy rubs me continually all through the night . It's a little much .

[Anonymous]

I hate it, but I think I'm the odd one out. Most girls seem to like that type of thing.

[Catvshuman]

I want to hate it and be like "I can hold my freakin self!" But I like the way it feels.

[Anonymous]

I don't like to be held if I'm hot but otherwise yes I like to be held.

[Anonymous]

yes, around the hips is my favorite place to be held.

[Anonymous]

yess defiantly... for me, it can be better than sex:)

[IsayYes]

In bed: yes. when standing: not so much. I don't like public affection , for no apparent reason

[kupke411]

Ofcourse being held is wonderful! Haven't met a girl yet who doesn't love it

[Anonymous]

Most of us females do enjoy being held.

It really does make us feel loved, warm, secure and cared for.

[bubblybubbles]

I love a hug / cuddle from behind. ^^

[BebeMarie]

In Canada, yes on a cold night. Lol

[gloomy]

yes to both they make me feel loved and cared for

[blackrose21]

when standing yes- in bed no- I like my space

[toulouse]

not all. just like not all guys like it.

[Anonymous]

omg lurv it's the best

[tiredofwaiting]

Yes it makes me feel warm and loved.

[anonymous0418]

Yes, I LOVE it.

[saysrae]

yesss (:

[upsyndrome]

mhm

[Anonymous]

I think I do but I don't have a boyfriend :(

[Anonymous]

Of course!

[vertigo1201]

Yes.

[Deniecemiranda2011]

Yes!