How to start conversation with nerdy girls

[Anonymous]

Theres this girl , she is shy quiet type,she hardly talks too much, is a bookworm, wears glasses...how to start talking to her? And what do such girls want/look for in guys?

[Rosie123]

Well start by just being a friend... like ask her what she likes and what she does for fun... and try asking her if she wants to do something together... okay?but don't be pushy... if she says no give it a week or two and ask again... okay? But during that week or so continue to talk to her don't ask her and if she says no walk away.. say okay and change the subject... okay?

[Rosie123]

Aww thanks but I bet there are better answers than mine...

[Asker]

Maybe, but I Found your the best! :)

[Rosie123]

Aww thanks

[nahiyana20]

you can start by asking about her favorite books,then discussing a bit about it

[Racez]

Just simply walk up to her, smile, greet her, and introduce your name.

If you know what her interests are, that will be a big help when it comes to prolonging conversations with her.

[Anonymous]

I love nerdy girls. I found one and she was a lot of fun =P

[Asker]

Hey, lucky you! How did you approach her? And what do they want/look for in guys? Did you find her any different in what she wants from relation and guyr?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah she didn't know how to react to me because she doesn't get a lot of attenton. But it was a winning situation because she has no idea how hot she really is.

[Asker]

I mean they behave same as other girls? Are they demanding?hate physical intimacy etc? Want shaved chest etc? More Caring?

[Opinion Owner]

She was go with the flow about everything and just appreciated that I paid attention to her.

[Asker]

U mean she was so easy? No complains or demands? Why? No offence was she below average in looks?..did she wear glasses?thin built? Tall/average/short?

[Opinion Owner]

Bro I just said she was really hot. But she never tried at her appearance so she didn't get noticed.

[Asker]

Did she paid more attention to look good after she entered into your relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

Ya

[girl987]

You can start by not stereotyping her so much

[Asker]

What that means?

[girl987]

It sounds like your opinion of her is based solely on her exterior

You could be surprised when you get to know her, she may be talkative and outgoing with friends

Whatever you do, never say anything to her like "you don't talk much" or "you're shy", I can guarantee that she will not be impressed

As for what she is looking for in a guy, you can't go wrong finding some common interests

Just approach her in a friendly way, without acting as if you are superior to her because she is "nerdy"

[Asker]

I actually like those things about her..it makes her attractive. And I don't think I am superior. Why would i!

[girl987]

Okay, but have you ever spoken to her before? My entire point is that she may be completely different to how you think she is when you get to know her, whether that is a good thing or not

I think I meant more, not to be too intimidating

I know a lot of guys who would approach a quiet and reserved girl in a very egotistical manner

But it's good if you are not like that

[Ohmygawd]

Talk to her about books or her music preference