He sits next to me alot... does that mean he likes me

[chessqueen]

Hey guys

So long story short, I have a crush on this guy and he always sits next to me wherever I go and he always looks at me and smiles.

He is pretty shy and he is a christian. Wherever I stand, he always comes to stand with me.

Last week when I last saw him with a group of friends, I was snuggling up to his arm and he said "what are you doing?...no touching". And I backed off. But he still sits next to me everywhere and he always wants to talk to me.

Does he like me or something?

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+1 y

The no touching bit, he said it in a jokey way.

[kholland65]

Generally speaking yeah, this is a big sign for guys. It's the male equivalent of girls texting their crush a lot.

Guy bond through physical touch and closeness so we like to be near your. That definitely includes sitting next to you, standing next to you. That physical presence when you are in are personal space is like a drug.

I will say though that his reaction to your cuddling is a bit odd. Most guys would totally roll with it and being super excited. You said that he did it in a joking way so maybe it was his nervous reaction since he was taken by surprise. Many guys just lack experience with women so when the girl of their dreams does finally fall into their lap (literally), they clam up and don't know what to do. I also don't know the guy but maybe he's really conservative and just doesn't believe in touching like that until the two of you are official.

[selectivethought]

Indubitably, I guess so. Just talk to him about it. #:-)

[Anonymous]

You're talking in a church or youth group setting?He is a devaut Christian or something? Is that why you mentioned he's a Christian? He probably likes you if he likes sitting next to you and talking to you. As for the no touching bit, it depends on your answer to my questions and the kind of crowd you were surrounded with at that time.

[chessqueen]

Yes he is very christian and so am I.

[Opinion Owner]

So yeah, he likes you.

[Anonymous]

I want to know that too, What did he mean by no touching . That's mean.

[avans]

He likes you but I don't think he's interested...no matter what, if some when is interested in u, they will do what ever it takes to approach you...if he does approach you then he's interested but other than that, he just likes you

[JSmuve]

haha, the touching remark was him flirting with you. It's like him saying 'whoa there missy, hands off the merchandise'. I'd say he likes you.

[Lj237]

Did he sound serious when he said what are you doing?... No touching ?

[Lj237]

Since it was in a joking way he is probably interested in you. He might find the touching stuff a bit uncomfortable since he is shy but I'm sure he likes it

[Dragan]

His behavior suggests that he likes you.

[idavi2033]

He probably just didn’t know it was you