Why do some girls hide the fact that they have boyfriends?

[Anonymous]

Why do you girls do it?

It leads us on?

What do you get out of it?

Are you unhappy with your relationship?

Do you just want more attention?

Why fake your fb status saying your "single" when your completely not?

Please put in everything! I just want to know where I am with a certain girl myself.

[renogaza]

looks at guys answers*

suddenly afraid to say neutral o_o

(note, I didn't -1 you guys, but I won't +1)

ok here goes... I used to hide it from my classmates and friends because I didn't want them teasing me about it, my boyfriend wanted them to know because he didn't want guys to keep hitting on me but it didn't really bother me and I always rejected them all anyway or just became friends with some of the really good guys and they all respected my answer so no harm done

but my cover was blown when my college friends and high school/gradeschool friends got together and had a big party at seafoods restaurant (basically an 8 acre fishing/trawling dock and a huge seafood restaurant chain with 4 more acres of parking lots and is full of fresh live assorted fish, crabs, lobsters, eels, jellyfishes, octupus, squids and theyre all alive in tanks, they even have a 120 lbs alive and very pissed off bright red king crab there last time, they even haul box jellyfishes for dirt cheap from okinawa and ship em here, we have a really good way to cook em)

anyway so they invited me and my boyfriend came just incase I have an episode so he posed as a friend for my sake but we didn't know we were the guests of honor, anyway after some food, beer and karaoke they all said they already knew (because a few of my college friends knew and they told everyone about it before we arrived)

I was so embarassed, but my boyfriend made a joke of it and said he was the mastermind behind it all and everyone except his best friend was shocked and surprised lol, anyway it wasn't so bad I guess, but I put so much effort in hiding it and it all went down the drain.. oh well ahaha

I'm a lot more comfortable now with everyone knowing than I did before especially since they accepted it positively and didn't tease me or anything, they actually cheered us on lol, now that I think about it the whole experience was really funny and cute lol, a memory I thought would be bad but was actually really good and very memorable :)

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anyway to answer your question as far as I'm concerned I don't think its just for the girl to flirt with another guy, just like with everything it has many different reasons and objectives, just because you've seen a couple doesn't mean youve seen em all, don't be so quick to judge :P

[renogaza]

oh I forgot to mention my parents don't know about us at all partially because I don't ever want them to see my future child and mainly because they want me to be their slave for as long as they live, I plan to leave when I save up enough to live in a aptm..

my boyfriend wants me to stay with him in his condo so I just might, his parents are both dead and his grandparents used to take care of him while he was in high school, they gave me their warmest blessings after I was interrogated (lol!?) by them xD

[Lj238]

you write like an essay for most of your answers lol ;p

[renogaza]

yes I do lol, I usually answer what I can relate to and I usually have a lot to say xD sry if it seems bad though, I am trying to lessen it but my boyfriend and a lot of other guys irl and in here at gag thinks its a really nice thing about me.. so I can't really change lol :D

thnx for noticing :)

[Anonymous]

If they like you, they might lie to keep the door open for flirting/cheating.

[MikeK]

They're always on the lookout for the BBD - Bigger Better Deal

Women are ALWAYS looking for an upgrade, and if one comes along, they're not going to disclose their relationship status.

[Racez]

It's because they want to keep their options open, and they might not be happy in their current relationship. Still if she treats you like that, consider her as a single.

[Anonymous]

Some girls are willing to cheat whether they are happy in their relationship or not. Other girls might not ever cheat, but enjoy having a guy hit on them, and think the guy will stop if he finds out she has a boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

some girls like the attention they get when guys think theyre single.

they like to flirt, they like getting free lunches&dinners, they like getting hit on, etc.

[Anonymous]

Could be anything but it's mainly because they believe women and men can be "just friends", when of course, they can't