Guys pretending to accidentally brush the back of his hand against a girl's butt/boobs/etc.

[Anonymous]

Do any of you do this? What do you get out of it? You can't even get a good feel!

There's a 50ish guy who has come on to me a few times, and I used to catch him staring into my eyes and at my chest and butt a lot. He hasn't done anything in a while, so I assumed he lost interest. Then, last night, he walked behind me and I felt the back of his hand press into my butt cheek! I'm not saying he did it on purpose, but could that even be accidental? If he had swung his hand into my hip/side of butt, I'd be more inclined to think it was an accident... this seems more calculated, but idk.

Is it really so stimulating to touch a girl's special areas with your knuckles? Or is it to see if she'd turn around/get offended? Just curious!

[front2back]

I don't do that. I have accidentally hit a girls boob and butt before. Usually by swinging my arms or not knowing she was behind me or something.

Guess some people are that desperate...

[Modernhippy]

a guy has to be really confident or really weird to do that. I don't know any guy that would do that tbh

[jessicarosen]

It sounds intentional to me. Did he apologize to you? If not, then he meant to do it.

[Michaelthomasb]

I don’t think that’s necessarily true. Where I work it’s crowded and I have found that it is so awkward apologizing for something like that. So if I accidentally hit someone’s boob or something, I don’t say anything because 1. It was an accident and 2. I hate awkward situations. I feel like if I say sorry it’s like I did something wrong, and then it seems intentional, but I don't know I guess everyone has a different point of view.

[Anonymous]

no normal and respectable guy would do that

[MishterE]

I'm a bit of a creep and about this I would personally have to say: It had to have been on purpose. Would someone just somehow accidentally fall over yet keep their balance and have their hand touch your butt? I think not!

(I am a creep, I know)

[Vereenaabug]

I like this guy but our relationship would be taboo so I don’t act on my feelings and I know he can’t either, a while ago when we were hanging out with a bunch of friends he comes in from his room, sees me in the living room standing and talking to his other friends, walks through the kitchen to get to where I am, walks behind me and brushes the back of his hand across my buttcheek, I look back bc I was like wth someone just touched my butt? He doesn’t say a word and continues walking away fast back into his room. I was wearing boxers and his tshirt bc I stayed the night and my other friend who is also his friend, gave it to me to wear. And I cannot tell if he did it on purpose or not. I don't know if it’s me thinking too much of it bc I have a crush on him, he’s done other subtle things to make me think he likes me too but I’m not sure, since you’ve done it before can u help me understand if it was an accident or not

[Anonymous]

no I wouldn't like it. that would make me angy.

[Anonymous]

Why is this being asked again? Lol