If you keep striking out with women, should you just concede you are ugly?

[Anonymous]

What would you think the problem is that he keeps getting rejected?

[udolipixie]

If you keep striking out with women, should you just concede you are ugly?

Not in my opinion as it could be he has an unappealing personality or he's seeking out of his league.

What would you think the problem is that he keeps getting rejected?

Likely that he's seeking gals out of his league as I find guys tend to rate gals into leagues but when it comes to the guy himself leagues don't exist so he can get a hottie often leading to lots of rejection for this 'leagues exist for gals but not me' mindset.

[Tractorbeam]

Bullsh*t! A rough-looking face won't matter.If you're over-weight it might matter a little.

Look them in the eye from about 30 feet away,as you approach them.Only the pretty ones will smile back.No smile,forget it.

After that.you just need to talk (about anything).

If you look confident,anything can happen.You don't have to be rich or look like a movie star.

The surest way to fail is to give up.First you need to tell yourself it's possible.

[Distant]

Beauty is subjective so there's no real "ugly". Someone out there will most likely find you attractive if you are a normal, functioning member of society. There are many factors to consider when trying to figure out why a guy is being rejected. Physical attractiveness is just one part of the equation.

[danix]

Define normal. Criminals get girls, duh.

[Distant]

In America, criminals are used as slave labour in privatized prisons so they do have a function on a societal level. You're right, they do get girls.

[danix]

Look, you're either ugly, you lack confidence, or the girls lose interest.

And if you're ugly, so what? there is more to life than sex and dating. I think most reasoned people learn that over time. Don't get sucked in by what popular culture/society tell you.

[Anonymous]

That's what I did. I'm 24 and I've been rejected or friend-zoned by every girl I've ever asked out or liked, many were average and one was below average. My picture got a high rating on one of those hotness rating sites, but I don't see how that's possible considering my luck with women and the fact that I've never noticed a girl checking me out or flirting with me.

[HungryJones]

Could be the approach could be the body language and other things as well, people need to stop just assuming they are ugly and no one will want them. It's a sh*tty way to think and it makes you feel bad.

[Janson]

not getting the women you want doesn't necessarily correlate to ones attractiveness. I pretty much agree with HungryJones

[Anonymous]

I never did. I just conceded I was going at the wrong girls, or that there was something wrong with my approach.

I worked on my approach, and things got way better for me.

[Theguyoverthere]

Your biggest insecurity will be your biggest obstacle when dating.

[Anonymous]

either you're ugly, you're hitting on girls way out of your league, or your game sucks.

[Anonymous]

Or you're just not rich enough and don't have a high enough status. That's truly what women are looking for. It's easy to tell by their habits

[Anonymous]

It could be a lack of confidence or how you're dressed

[JamielovesKU]

I believe there's someone for everyone.

[Anonymous]

Depending on the number of rejections, yes.