Why did he keep my number?

[guycurious2012]

I dated a guy for 2months and when we broke it off I deleted his number and removed him from Facebook.

I got a text from him a month after breaking up, why do some people do this? It's over...don't be fake nice. Let it be

[Saavy145]

First of all, I don't know the reason for the breakup, and who asked for breakup, you or the guy..?

As per my opinion.

1. (If you called for a breakup) --> Then the guy is in love with you and want to spend some more time and got stuck up to you and want you back.

2. (If the guy broke off) --> Then he is not happy to see you happy, he wants to take revenge and make you feel bad about it and let you feel regreted that you were wrong in all the cases.

Rest I would suggest if this guy is a cheapster he will start dsiturbing you if you react to his messages or call, so better " Download True Caller" app in your mobile and ignore him full time.

Enjoy Life... NEVER DEPEND ON SOMEONE ELSE FOR YOUR HAPPINESS" iF YOU ARE HAPPY YOU WILL SEE WORLD IS HAPPY"

[dodgypirate]

I got a strange feelings you still like him. Why? because you're very emotional (anger). Listen the opposite of love isn't hatred, it's indifference. Hatred can mean love, but on a very implicit stage (i.e in a hiding in your heart)

How long ago were you 2 dating?

Sounds to me it got serious pretty fast,

Calm down and do some reflection.

[guycurious2012]

Only dated two months. He said he wanted to be casual

But exclusive . So didn't want a relationship

[dodgypirate]

Casual but exclusive? What the hell does that mean?

Exclusive = relationship for me.

Do you still have feelings for him?

[guycurious2012]

Exactly . I concluded he wasn't into me enough

[dodgypirate]

Funny because this reminds me of a situation 4 weeks back.

Girl I was dating for one month ditches me saying she wasn't ready for a relationship yet even through she made me meet her parents on week 2 and said stuff like "I never really say this to anyone but I really really like you".

Now after 4 weeks she's deleted me from twitter and Facebook. Haven't talked to her one bit and whenever she crosses paths with me she completely ignores me :/

[guycurious2012]

Yeah well he was intense at first and I pulled him back on it. So I don't know

[dodgypirate]

What do you mean?

[guycurious2012]

We met on a dating app. I couldn't meet him for a month I had Europe trip. I wasn't looking for a relationship and told him. He told me the same . We met and had good immediate chemistry . We were seeing each other a week and he got all intense , holding my hand, texting me after dropping me at work "do you miss me yet?" , I liked him but didn't know how to handle his intensity . I asked if we could be friends , he was pissed, ignored me for a few days, then we did friends with benefits but he wanted to see me

[guycurious2012]

Exclusively so we did that. We would text all week and he would sleep over twice a week or more . After a bad date, I asked him what we were doing, asking if it's leading to something because it had been a month and somehow got more involved , an he said he wasn't looking for a relationship right now , and why couldn't we keep doing this . He said if I really really wanted a relationship then fine I could date, but not be intimate with them, and I had to tell him when I fell fr someone . I just

[guycurious2012]

I just said no I don't want that. And he couldn't understand and was so angry . He tried to come over to collect his phone charger but I posted it. I felt he would try to change my mind. Then when he received it he sent a text " thankyou so much I got it :) xoxox take care". I didn't get how he was so , sweet at the end? I guess he didn't care . Then out of nowhere I get this Xmas text , and I asked him to delete my number. I just don't understand him. And I think he thinks he can do better

[guycurious2012]

I know tht he has had these "casual relationships" before, and he's been badly hurt by an ex who cheated on him with a bikie . He still talks about it. And when I talked about my career when he asked, he seemed somehow intimidated , he's a labourer (which is fine!) an then he talked about his model ex gfs , and was like he tried to make me feel ...impressed or like he was a catch or, I don't know? He just started getting cocky and I didn't like it

[Brookeelise]

maybe he likes yuou, or he just didn't get around to deleting it

[Phoenix98]

I keep in contact with all my exes of course I was friends with them for years before I dated them I left on good terms with all of them. Even the ones who left me jus because a relationship didn't work dosn't mean the friendship has to end. That could be all he wants is to be friends is there really anything wrong with that?

[cavmanier]

He's being friendly. I do this too.

[guycurious2012]

I don't stay friends with someone it hasn't worked with. No way. I guess he is used to doing this with most girls. I won't waste my time , what's done is done

[ArabianPwincess197]

maybe he wants to keep in touch with you