Questions: Other

By big, I mean big enough for it to impact your behaviors in the long term. If you have some small ones that you think add up to one big one, please add that.

For insecurities, we will use the definition below:

Insecurity -
n. something that makes you feel a lack of confidence about yourself or your relationships with other people

Ex. My boobs are too small
Ex. My lips are too big
Ex. My forehead is too big
Ex. My voice is too squeaky
Ex. I have too much fat on my belly
Ex. I am terrible with public speaking

It would be great for you to share the specifics. No judgement. Just curiosity. Feel free to go anonymous though if that helps.

To be honest, I find men more logical in that aspect. At least they're visual, to the point and love what they see. There is less sugarcoating what your eyes see.

In comparison, the ''falling in love with what you hear'' isn't reliable. What if it's a con-artist or player saying everything she wants to hear, even promises a family family and it's all false? There is a lot of sugarcoating and lying.

As a woman, it's a shame how my gender can easily fall for it just because he's romantic and says sweet things. Anyone can promise you the world and a flying carpet and it doesn't mean he'll have kids with her. And then more girls complain about getting string along and the relationship going nowhere. They focus too much on words said than their own eyes; no actions done.