He said he wanted kids and was worried that his time was running out and said I'm getting old too? We have a 11 year age gap?

[Anonymous]

I'm 30 and he is 41, should I worry about my age? I'm not big on having kids since I like to be child free...

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He said if I was like 25 this compromise would have been different...

[Little_Bumblebee]

His own fruit isn't that ripe either, think it's douche-baggy of him to put everything about the age on you.

When it comes to whether or not you want kids, then I would say you should follow your gut. It's not something you can regret later on or compromise with half a baby. And if you don't want to be a parent, the kid can feel that and it will affect them negatively.

[Asker]

Either way should I be concerned about my age?

[Little_Bumblebee]

I don't think so, but at the same time, it would depend on your overall fertility.
But the fertility decreases after the early 30's

[Jabberjaw]

I mean it does get harder with age, but if you just keeps his house good he's fine. A reasonably healthy man can have kids well into his seventies

[Asker]

And as for me?

[Jabberjaw]

Same applies but at a younger age. They say problem pregnancies increase at 35. Doesn't mean it will happen. But statistically the chance goes up. Realistically if you take care of yourself you can have kids in your 30s-early 40s safely. It's just not ideal because of both of your fertility.

You'll both want to get tested for fertility health if you decide to have kids so you can make changes I'd necessary

[Asker]

I don't care enough to have them..

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Chill out, some get their kids in their 50s

[Asker]

He was very conscious of his age... He said men stop getting babies in 40's and girls gets risks at 35..

[Fromdusktilldawn]

My mother was 39 and my dad 41 when they got me.