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I see him every day at work, except he works in a different department and there is very minimal chance that our paths would ever cross.

He started back in July, and I have noticed that most times we are in the same vicinity, he will make eye contact with me. When I look back at him, he holds eye contact with me and smiles at me. Sometimes it catches me off guard. For example, I was walking out of the canteen with a couple of my friends and I was behind them. He was walking towards me and I happened to glance at him quickly, and noticed he was gazing and smiling at me.

We finally spoke last Friday. We were walking towards each other. He smiled at me and I said hi. He smiled even more and we just exchanged pleasantries as I walked away from him.

I've also noticed him staring in my direction but not directly at me.

I know it’s not much to go on, but what do you think?

It's like you ladies can't think. I see so many common sense questions here. For example," we went on 5 dates. He hasn't tried to have sex with me. Does that mean he likes me? Should I be worried? Is he doing something or gay?"


Make up your minds. Do you want respect from men or not?

This is why I just can't be bothered with being friends with other women because something is seriously mentally wrong with them

Growing up, I never liked sharing the same towel, glass nor utensils someone was using at the moment. I don't share from anyone, not even from my parents nor brother. Or if someone couldn't their food; I don't eat it either.

So yeah if I were in a relationship then we would have our separate water bottles, soaps, different towels. That's my only trait. Would this be a deal-breaker for you?

If I'm making soap and you get a soon to taste it, don't place the spoon back on the pot; wash it.

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My match’s location on Hinge keeps changing dramatically. I only checked it because I wanted to make sure they weren’t too far away to meet up for a date with.

Anyways, their location changed dramatically - like halfway across the world, and then a few states away. I first thought VPN but Hinge doesn’t change your location - you do manually.

His profile is verified but I’m kind of creeped out. Should I stay matched with someone changing their location like this? It seems fishy.

When you were a student at school, did you and your classmates ever have a shower after a Physical Education (PE) lesson?

I think she said it beautifully.

It’s that anyone MUST initiate. But rather, to wait just for the sake of waiting. For permission. To live. Is detrimental.

“Q : How do I ask a guy out on a date?

A : Did you know, that when it comes to psychology, when you say to someone you’re attracted to them, this increases their curiosity to you and even gets them thinking you’re attractive. It can, if the person sees you attractive already at an unconscious level, get him to start thinking of dating you.

Did you also know, that most men, the confident ones, whether it’s a bad boy or someone who is just confident guy, will be very impressed by you asking him out.

Did you also know, that you can tell if the persons values, the world is positive or stinks, shallow, by asking them out on a date. If that person who is a friend or someone you just met starts acting weird, ignores you, this tells you a lot about how deep down, they are not really good person. They judge people a lot, they are shallow.

A person who takes it as a compliment, even if they say they are not interested will be nice to you, and when you see them again, they’ll be looking forward to saying hello to you. That shows they have goodness inside them and they feel a lot of empathy.

Did you also know…the experienenced, confident guys or guys who have never dated, like open communication. They don’t like the games, the hints. Many guys are like that anyways.

When you say it, it is a relief for them because they know you’re not into the mind games, you’re not insecure and you are sincere.

Did you also know, you’re not the only one attracted to the guy.

There are women who are and so, if you don’t make the move then you make it possible and increase the chance to 95% that the other, whoever she is, who asks him out, gets the guy.

Did you also know, whenever you don’t take action on something or someone you want, your growth is slowed down. You’re not learning, growing in confidence. “

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#1. How do you ask a guy what he wants from you?

Just ask the question. That’s really the best way to find out anything. You could play mental gymnastics or just be authentic and ask the question straight out. It may catch him off guard but the only way to find out where a relationship is going is to ask what they are looking for.
If they are not looking for the same thing you are, then why waste your time pursuing a relationship with them?
Be friends, but move onto someone who is looking for the same thing.

#2. What is the best answer to say to a girl when she asks what you want?

Dodge the answer everytime it comes up. The moment you laid down your feelings and wants, she is bound to screw you up.

Girls are 'seduced' by an element of mystery.

Let them keep guessing , wondering and one day out of intense curiosity they will eventually give up their ego and open up their vulnerable side to you.

#2 B)

Hello friend. A girl asking “what do you want from me?” is unsure of where you stand (she can’t “read” you ) and this is the way you should be in a relationship or when you are interacting with a “potential girlfriend” . Great job.

keep doing what you are doing , keep her unsure of your feelings towards her and this will attract her even more.

To answer her question just say something like “ nothing serious for now “ or “ i am not looking to get into anything serious “

You will be perceived as “higher status” and more relaxed.

the ones who push for a relationship are never the ones who actually get the girl ( more specifically the girl’s attraction ).

So keep up on being the cool guy that you are and keep on doing what you are doing. Answer her questions without pushing for anything , especially if you like her too. Her asking you this question is a big indicator of attraction.

ALSO be sure to check my profile out for some tips and a couple of courses that I have given my insights to, so anybody can get the woman they want and keep her.

Like the title said. Can I wear this dress for a first date? I always like to wear dress, i'm very girly. Our first date would be casual, this is a flowy dress. I could be wearing Sandal Heels (types of sandal that still have small heels). What do you guys and girls think? Should i choose another dress option? Please choose in the Poll options, thankyou ;)

Sportsball, sportsball, sportsball, sportsball, sportsball sportsball... what you men see in it, I don't know. [scoffs]

A load of men throwing a bit of leather around a field...[scoffs]

You men, the things you think are "great fun". Like going target shooting, a load of men standing around shooting guns! And motorcycling, a load of men on motorcycles riding up & down the road! And going to bars, a load of men drinking beer and talking nonsense! And stripclubs, a load of men in a stripclub watching some woman who never knew her father with her jiggly bits on display. And fighting, a load of men going around fighting! And so forth.

[scoffs]

So I've asked the men who the most important woman in their lives were and they've Voted their daughter, now I'm asking women the same question... Who the number one Man in your life?

• Your older brother when you guys were kids
• Your husband or Partner
• Your Sons because they're still small and need a nurturing hand.

• You had a loving Older Sister that that helped Raised you.
• You are now married with a loving wife.
• You have Daughters

My younger sister is always texting my mom to help her out with something everyday….. she tells my mom non stop that she’s sick or has sore joints/ body aches…. doesn’t even know how to use a toilet plunger if the water goes too high…my mom goes all the way to my sisters house just to unplug the toilet for her and to help her put stuff in the oven because she claims stuff is too heavy for her to lift! She even asks my mom for groceries then ends up throwing food away in the end or asking my mom to return it to the store…. my mom also takes out her garbage for her and one night at 8pm when my mom was about to go to bed she was asking my mom to go over there to get her a new blowdryer for her hair because she didn’t know how to reset the plug!!!

why does my sister rely on my mom so much? And why can’t she just go see the doctor if she’s so “sick”?

she’s gone for blood work and X-rays and the doctors don’t find anything in her yet she complains a lot about not being “well”.

30F either DA or FA, want to say I’m some kind of avoidant. Based on life experiences, are these pretty tell tale signs I’m probably…well not attractive? I’ve always questioned how almost every pretty woman I’ve come across is always in a relationship with an equally attractive guy. When I was chubby younger, I thought losing weight would solve everything and it hasn’t. I feel like regardless of what anyone else says, I’ll always wholeheartedly believe attractive women have no issue finding a partner & they have life easier. I’ve been told I’m attractive by a variety of people for most of my life, even when I was chubby. I’m not thin, 5’7 women’s US 10 so midsize but I have that thicker thigh/flatter stomach build. The only time I get attention from guys I find attractive are on dating apps and that’s not telling in my opinion. I’ve been told this guy looked at me/this guy found me attractive from other people but the guy never makes it known to me. And there’s been very very few times where I would see an attractive guy making eye contact with me or at least caught my gaze but I just look away b/c I don’t see the point. I’m anxious/reserved but a lot of people with anxiety are in fulfilling relationships.

Last thing I’ll add was being bullied pretty badly as a kid, again I was chubby so I know this played a part. Worse in middle school, I didn’t have to be homeschooled but it still sucked really freaking bad. And in HS but not as extreme as middle school, HS was more mean girls if anything. As an adult at old jobs, I did have confrontation/clashing w/personalities too. And let’s not forget shit bosses. Since I’ve worked remotely for the past few years, I haven’t had drama with coworkers or mgmt. Let’s hope it stays that way, I’ve had to deal with toxic family members too but that’s a thing of the past.

I’M SO CONVINCED THESE THINGS DON’T HAPPEN TO ATTRACTIVE PEOPLE