Are you a wallflower?

Question

Someone who keeps to themselves, who is quiet or soft spoken. Doesn't hang out in groups, social gatherings.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Yes most of them and that's just because of my work are things I like doing and I tried to stay away from drama and people usually bring drama with them or they need to talk about somebody to make themselves feel good or whatever and I'm just not into that so yeah I guess if that's what it's called I am I thought it might have been called The loner but I guess not

And there are moments and times where I have to go out and do things and be Mr congeniality and I don't mind that the most days I have many things to do so I can get more things done by being on my own

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I used to be back when I was younger. After high school, I came out of that shell pretty easily strangely enough.

Every time there's a new start for me (like elementary school to high school or high school to college), I seem to subconsciously change drastically to prevent the same negative social scenarios from happening again.

NewWaves · Accepted Answer

Used to be that but it was more social anxiety. Then I got over it and challenged myself to get out of my comfort zone. Turns out I like keeping to myself, I'm still not a huge fan of large groups but I do like hanging out with my people. And I am not quiet or soft spoken lol

DancingQueen16 · Accepted Answer

Yes that was me all through middle school and high school like in middle school we could go outside after lunch if it wasn't time for our next class yet and while everyone else was having conversations I'd usually be sitting on this little wall with my face buried in a book

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Yes, I am a shy person, especially a girl or woman, who is frightened to involve herself in social activities and does not attract much interest or attention: Sooner or later someone would take pity on the poor wallflower and ask her to dance.

molonski2 · Answer

I think the word " wallflower " has a negative connotation is my view  It doesn't really sum me up at all , but there are elements of it that are really positive too.

DarkCarousel · Answer

I have two or three friends, so if they’re with me, I’m pretty interactive. Otherwise, yeah, probably a bit of a wallflower.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Used to be in middle school. In high school I really blossomed.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Kind of. But I'm trying to put myself in & socialize.

TheBootyChest · Answer

I can be at times when I feel like I don't fit in or new to a place or group.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Depends on the circumstances.

Dirtydangerhart · Answer

I've been a loner for the most part of my life. But if I have people to interact with then I will interact with them. Can men even be considered Wallflowers?

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Isn’t that just called autism? Lol

DrPepper12 · Answer

Mostly yes but depending on people, reason for get together and previously how much I drank I could be quite engaging and entertaining!

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

By that definition, yes, but I don't go to parties, so I'm never against said walls.

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

Nope sounds like a boring individual with no character and no personality.

es20490446e · Answer

I like to combine moments of complete loneliness, with moments of being social.

PeterLegg91 · Answer

I am except I'm a loud talker  re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Kelly6 · Answer

@icuddleu used to be in school, but now I’m completely opposite

LiamJHayden · Answer

I'm the one who extracts the flowers from the wall.

lorenzomichael · Answer

No I’m not a wallflower. However I am a social butterfly.

Anastasia06 · Answer

No I’m out going to coffee. And bars when in Greece.

Anonymous · Answer

It's probably most comfortable to me. I would assume most people on this site are.

EmmaMary · Answer

No... Quite the opposite in fact.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I'm the complete opposite

exitseven · Answer

I have been a loner all my life.

Anonymous · Answer

Omg you're so cute and amazing.

kaucky1 · Answer

Am not a magical dumbass😏🙃

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

I'm introverted so maybe

strateguy632 · Answer

Yes!

lyrem04 · Answer

Depends who I’m with

Simslover92 · Answer

Very much so.

paledreams · Answer

Somewhat 😨

Justneedtokno · Answer

I totally agree

Alex-Snow · Answer

I hope not

Staximus · Answer

Sometimes

eagle1951 · Answer

nope lol

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