Polls

I have always been pro-prenup. I have two businesses and I'll be damned if someone I no longer get along with decides he's just going to take my businesses and everything I've spent half my life building in a divorce. One of my good friends was in a nasty divorce in which her husband cheated on her with their secretary, and then wanted the entirety of the business they built together with her working 70 hour weeks at one point to sustain it. That was such an eye opener for me what people can do, even if they are the ones at fault in destroying the marriage. We would all like to think we could be civil in a divorce, but nope, of all the ones I've seen happening in person, only about 20% are ever shaking hands at the end.

So what about you, would you absolutely insist on getting a pre-nup or do you think like some do, that a pre-nup is just setting your relationship up for pre-failure

I personally don't celebrate Halloween.
Here in Italy it is not a very big festivity even though it has started to become famous in the last years.
Some children go do tricks or threats, and adults usually go in pubs or disco. But it is not as big as it is in the US.


What about you? Do you like to celebrate it?

I was at a party on Saturday and just realized a girl there was hitting on me. Maybe it's cuz I basically never get hit on by women but somehow I didn't realize all the flirting, touching and compliments till looking back on it today. In the moment I thought she was just being extra nice to me 🤦‍♀️

So I've lived in a number of countries.

There's countries like America, Canada, UK, Sweden where you don't have to contribute a dime to the ecomony and you can still get welfare / benefits. If not multiple generations of the SAME families would not be ON benefits instead of working.

And then there's

Countries like Spain where if you don't contribute a dime to the economy - except for legitimate reasons, such as severe disability - by working for a few years you won't get a single dollar of benefits / welfare support from the government.

I personally see Spain's welfare / benefits system as highly beneficial as
a) it'll force people who are capable of working but make excuses left right and center (or addicts to take detox & jobs more seriously) to smarten up & contribute to society,
b) it enforces purpose, drive, ambition - strive for betterment - whereas in other countries why bother to even graduate high school if the government will pay you to sit at home,
c) the money spent supporting people who can work but don't, etc., can be redirected to more helpful to the community as a whole aspects such as better healthcare, education, etc.

We met up for first time about 4 PM yesterday, he bought me food at this casual Mexican spot & he seemed okay with continuing talking but I ended it a little over the hr mark (said I had to finish errands). He asked if I had something planned & I said yes, he wanted to know where my car was & wanted to walk me to my car. I was kind of walking in front of him though, I said thanks and he said have a good rest of your day. It’s not like he ended the meet-up or there was awkward silence during it, I felt like we both spoke enough/convo flowed fine but I must’ve overestimated it

Her hair and clothes are casual but she never wears makeup which gives her the upper hand perhaps to the non natural types? She is a 6/10 facially but has a slim good physique which isn’t evident on a date as under a table. Would guys on a date, not taking the body into account, think she’s attractive?

For example: if you’re male, have you met a female who is basically a female version of you? (And vice versa)
What did it lead to? Did you become close to them? Date them? Hate eachother? How did that relationship/friendship pan out?

I'm not saying we should stereotype all Latinos into one category. I'm simply saying that there are stereotypes that exist, and Latinos have some of the best ones. If you're Latino, please feel free to chime in.

For example, they love their families.

Do all of them? Of course not but is this not a great stereotype to have?

Another example is that they love sex and are good at sex. I can see how this one might set the bar too high or it sexualizes especially the women, but I still feel like this is much much better than saying they're bad lovers. For example, Asian men are mistakenly stereoptyped for having small penises. I'm not saying they're massive like the biggest ones in porn, but they aren't bad. Do you think women created this myth? Doubtful.

Another Latino stereotype is that they love dancing. I'm in NYC and I've met Latinos who don't, but the vast majority does. In fact, I once asked a lady if she liked dancing, and she said, "Of course, I'm a Latina"

We met up for first time about 4-5 hrs ago, he bought me food at this casual Mexican spot & he seemed okay with continuing talking but I ended it a little over the hr mark. He asked if I had something planned & I said yes, he wanted to know where my car was & wanted to walk me to my car. I was kind of walking in front of him though, I said thanks and he said have a good rest of your day. It’s not like he ended the meet-up or there was awkward silence at all, I felt like we both spoke enough but guess I overestimated it 🤷🏻‍♀️

When eating sticky meat such as ribs or wings at a BBQ, do you prefer to use a knife and fork or tear the meat off with your fingers and clean up with a finger bowl