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Brad & I started long-distance dating through an online app in Nov 2023. He met me in person in Feb. I managed to move closer to his city because of school from March-June, so once I came, we began living together & he proposed to me in May. I didn't share this info with my family since they're crazy. A school situation happened where I got dismissed, so my sister came to move me back home in June. She met him for the first time & didn't like him for different reasons. She said I had no choice but to come home since my mom had heart issues & needed me. Brad didn't want me to go, so I told him to meet my family & we all left the following day.

My family didn't like him since he was focused on taking me back to his home & not caring about my mom needing me/my school situation. I decided to stay with family & Brad disliked that since he hoped I'd leave that day. He left & gave me a hard time about my decision since then. My mom said she plans a Sept party where I can move back in with him more honorably than if I just left. Brad didn't want to do it, but I did. We waited until Sept & then I discovered my mom lied. She hoped we'd break up by now since she didn't like him. I fought with her about it, she apologized, & now booked the venue in Nov by showing me confirmation. She even talked with his parents for the first time about this as well so they can see if she keep her word. Brad now feels distrust with her & said if I didn't leave my home by the end of the month, then he'd end the relationship even though he's not going to help me leave here truly. I told him if my mom started to do anything fishy before Nov, I'd leave, but it didn't make sense to end the relationship over something like this, especially since I planned to visit. He sent me a goodbye/breakup text last night and goodnight. I texted him a couple of texts, but he hasn't responded. Do you think he's taking time to think and will reply soon? Or do you think he's ghosting me? I don't want to lose him :(

Which one would u perfer overall

What would you think if a woman called you sexy?

And would they be in your thoughts a lot afterwards?

2 months ago, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs on first meet up. We were in contact via Instagram messages. Then we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see a movie. The day before movie I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. On day of movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on first meet up , I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on (there’s nothing wrong with that but he was obnoxious in my opinion). He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. When I spoke with him on the phone the day before movie, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but right after movie he sent a message saying that he “wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him”. Tbh I was planning on letting him know I wasn’t interested whenever he would’ve reached out to me again. Flash fwd to a month ago, he sends me a dm with an inside joke, I just left him on read again. He continued to follow me on social media but unmatched with me from the dating app we met through, I unfollowed him from IG. And then after a while he finally unfollows on IG

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Also do you own one of these devices?

I've been on three dates recently, one of the guys said via message after the date which said "Sorry, your ruined", one guy told me he thinks I'll cheat (I've never cheated and how he can tell that from a date I have no idea) and the last guy got up, went to the toilet and never came back!

So yeah, do you white guys have an issue with dating women that have been with black guys for some reason? I personally don't have a preference, I go for personality but it seems white guys don't date black girls or girls that have been with black guys.

Ever since I could vote there has been this drive to get "everyone" to vote. Yet among my friends, there has always been this super shallow understanding of politics. Most of my friends don't vote, and they don't think about politics, other than to say, "They're all evil, and on the take".

Knowing that these people are more likely to vote based on their shallow, uninformed rebel anarchy inclinations, I actually prefer that fewer people be encouraged to vote. Why let people who really don't give a flip about the country decide it's future?

Anyways, what do you think?

Please comment.

I was asked if I go Braless or Commando more often, and now I want to know what is more common.

by the way, I'm Commando everyday except during my period, and I'm braless unless the situation really requires it, so pretty evenly matchup.

I'm wondering if you feel bad because you feel friendzoned or maybe you feel good that you have a good friend.

I'm not talking about situations like where a heterosexual woman has a gay best friend. I'm talking about between 2 opposite gender heterosexuals or 2 same gender homosexuals.