Please help- confusing ex?

[Confusedgirl841]

Me and my ex recently got back in touch after 6 months. We weren’t no contact but he unblocked me and messaged as he found out I had a relapse with mental health.

He is concerned. Says he still finds me attractive but takes forever to reply to me. He’s in America for work at the moment and I’m in UK but even when the time difference isn’t bad he doesn’t reply.
I miss him terribly and don’t know how to deal with it going forward. What must he be thinking? Why doesn’t he just block me again now he knows I’m ok?

He’s still interested

He’s playing you

[V_Injector]

I'm going to be real with you and you might not like this but thankfully I just don't really care if your feeling are hurt.

He is away from you and he's forgetting why he blocked you. Mostly because he isn't getting some pussy. If he was getting better pussy, he would never look in your direction again.

He's in America... welcome to the land of fat land whales that feel entitled to men that are 7 feet tall and needs to make $1M/year at least and owns several Lamborghinis even though she doesn't make shit, drives a piece of shit and lives in a shit place where she deals with cat shit so much that she has toxoplasmosis. My point of all this trash talk of the women here in my country is simply to point out...

He's probably not getting better pussy. ... and again, I'd like to point out he hasn't been putting up with your shit and is forgetting why you yourself is a shit show that he doesn't really want to deal with.

With all I have said, I hope you understand why I can't vote. He could be still interested because of his own circumstances OR he could be playing you because you're actually still worth playing because of his circumstances.

Mark my words though... if he finds better pussy, you should be ready to accept he was sick of your shit long before he resorted to unblocking you.

[V_Injector]

Test my theory... ask him about the women here and sort of find out for yourself about his "other options" while being in the states. I bet my left nutt that he's just in a bad situation. He had you blocked... ask yourself what makes you unblock an ex that you had reasons to block.

[Confusedgirl841]

He said he’s been celibate for 6 months actually. Like I have.
He said he met one girl (not in America) but that’s he’s not seeing her and didn’t have sex with her. I believe him, if anything he would tell me if he had because it would hurt me to know that.

[V_Injector]

So I'm right. He's not getting better pussy.

[Confusedgirl841]

He unblocked me as he found out I’d had an S attempt. The first time ever in my life. I didn’t even want him to know.

[V_Injector]

That just proves my point more because he sees a possible option for pussy almost fly out the window.

The dude wants pussy, all his options laid out on a table are before him. It just so happens you are an option and it also happens that you're the best hope he has for any pussy anytime soon. He didn't want to take that option and left you blocked until you had an S attempt and saw that one and only option was almost gone.

He sighed, and a tear came out of his eye, "I suppose I'll take what I can get." He unblocks you and starts the process of trying to convince you that he's all about you... and he is... he doesn't have any pussy and you're his current and only hope of getting some pussy.

Thats the fact of the matter. I just want you to have a healthy warning that if some 19-year-old decent-looking woman comes around who is desperate and just needs a place to stay... you'll be tossed out of the window unless you trap him in the "living together" situation. Even that isn't going to save you from getting cheated on.

I doubt he's going to find some 19 year old whore with extra steps here in the states... our 19 year olds prefer to just be whores until they're around 30 to 40 years old and then they start thinking about relationships because nobody else wants to fuck them anymore for $30... plus they have kids by different baby daddies they have to think about... especially now that her pussy is blown out.

[Flower7]

Sounds like he's not interested in you romantically but does care about you as a friend. Don't expect anything to come from this. He was just checking on you. Don't take it too seriously.

[Laura131]

Think he's just concerned about your health tbh

[Anonymous]

You are wasting your time. Move on.

[In_Trance]

Stop paying attention to your ex

[strateguy632]

1st.