Ex help please. ?

[Anonymous]

I got blocked by my ex about 4 months ago due to the fights we had. I said some things I shouldn’t have said and believe she acted some ways she shouldn’t have acted. I miss her a lot and I have been texting her from a different number about every 45 days (3 times total) I don't know what to do to have her coming back in my life. I love her and want to try again as well as regret saying some of the things I said. Idrk what my next move should be but I don’t want to never see and speak to her again. I would love some suggestions what I should do to try to make this salvageable.

Thanks for reading and helping out!

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, breakups are the worst. I know how hard it is to get over that first love. Here's what I would suggest:

- Stop contacting her from other numbers - that will only push her further away and come across as creepy. You need to give her space.

- Do some self-reflection on why the relationship didn't work and what you can learn from your mistakes. We all say regrettable things in fights.

- Work on bettering yourself - pick up a fun hobby, hit the gym, spend more time with your boys. She'll notice if you look happy when/if she sees you again.

- In a month or two, send one last message from your regular number saying you respect her space but want to apologize fully for what went down. Leave the ball in her court.

- Then let time do its thing. Maybe she'll come around, maybe not. But trust that if its meant to be, the universe will work it out. Stay positive!

Breakups suck monkey balls, but you'll grow from this one. Keep your head up, dude - better days ahead! You gotta take the L and move on for now.

[bededazzle]

do you mean you sent her messages, she received then, and chose not to reply? if so, you should respect her desire not to speak. if not, then I don't know, how can you get in touch with her?

[DreamLife7]

Why are u harrassing her? She doesn't want to be with you. Hope she gets a restraining order

[SotiCoto]

Relationships don't work unless BOTH (or all) participants want it.
What you want, alone, in isolation, is irrelevant. If she doesn't want it, you're only making things worse.
Give up.
Move on.
Quit being a stalker.

[sawno]

If she wanted you back you would not be texting from different numbers. Man up, move on and stop bothering her.

[Tharithi]

What did u say

[dudeinohio]

Leave her alone and move on. She did

[LiamJHayden]

Move on.