My ex is confusing me…?

[Anonymous]

So I broke up with my ex and when I found I was pregnant he was pretty nasty about it and even went as far as blocking me. I went through my pregnancy alone and when I delivered my baby. I went to child support (in the UK) so they could inform him of my birth since he had blocked me. We did a DNA test since he wanted assurance. The baby is his. Now he has apologised and thanked me for taking care of our child. He said he needs to thank my family for taking care of me and our child. Said he’s going to try and be the best father to our daughter. A couple of days ago he came to meet his daughter for the first time. And he was being weird. He bought me flowers and wine. He was asking me if I’m seeing anyone. He also cooked for me and apologised again for blocking me. When he left he hugged me tight and for a long time and kissed me on the cheek. Then he messaged me when he got home thanking me for hosting him and then the next day he texted me to see how I was doing. Why do you think he's doing this… is he interested or just being nice?

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+1 y

I also want to say He Kept on subtly touching me. And said he would help me with decorating and painting.

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+1 y

And when I say ex I wasn’t with him for long

[lightbulb27]

he's interested in doing the work to make a family. give him a chance.

why breakup? There's a lot to the story you didn't share.

Either way, thank you for allowing him access to his daughter. Dads are important. The mom though... makes the family. You decide how solid this family will be, not him. And that will reflect in your child.

[Tim2nice]

He made a mistake but it’s not too late to salvage this. Give him a chance but warn him if he messes up again he’ll be history

[Asker]

So you think he’s interested?

[Tim2nice]

It sounds like it. Maybe he’s matured and ready to become a reliable partner and father to his child.

[DreamLife7]

Why are you still talking to him? Are you slow, desperate, too ugly to get anyone and insecure?, he doesn't like you and lying saying you're pregnant just to keep him didn't work. He never liked you nor wanted a baby with youm leave him alone

[Asker]

Are you okay? Is everything okay at home? Because you seem to have some severe mental health issues. I’ll pray for you!

[DreamLife7]

Are you okay? You act like you're retarded. Read between the lines. You had to say you're pregnant to keep a guy around who doesn't want you. When that didn't work bc he still treated you like shit then u left. Why? Bc he doesn't like you. Get therapy

[Asker]

As I said I’ll pray for you lmao bitter and miserable

[DreamLife7]

I dont need prayers you're the one posting for help not me. Soak in your depression loser

[Angxl3120]

I mean he didn't cheat, maybe he wasn't ready and got scared and chose the easier way instead of takingthe responsibility. You should help and support him to be there

[LiamJHayden]

You broke up with him and then found out you were pregnant. And he later wanted a DNA test. He might have thought you dumped him for another guy and that the new guy took off when you got pregnant.

[Asker]

I told him I was pregnant at 4 weeks so I don’t think he thought that

[bblazerm]

He seems interested... especially since YOU were the one that broke up with HIM