So I broke up with my ex and when I found I was pregnant he was pretty nasty about it and even went as far as blocking me. I went through my pregnancy alone and when I delivered my baby. I went to child support (in the UK) so they could inform him of my birth since he had blocked me. We did a DNA test since he wanted assurance. The baby is his. Now he has apologised and thanked me for taking care of our child. He said he needs to thank my family for taking care of me and our child. Said he’s going to try and be the best father to our daughter. A couple of days ago he came to meet his daughter for the first time. And he was being weird. He bought me flowers and wine. He was asking me if I’m seeing anyone. He also cooked for me and apologised again for blocking me. When he left he hugged me tight and for a long time and kissed me on the cheek. Then he messaged me when he got home thanking me for hosting him and then the next day he texted me to see how I was doing. Why do you think he's doing this… is he interested or just being nice?
he's interested in doing the work to make a family. give him a chance.
why breakup? There's a lot to the story you didn't share.
Either way, thank you for allowing him access to his daughter. Dads are important. The mom though... makes the family. You decide how solid this family will be, not him. And that will reflect in your child.
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He made a mistake but it’s not too late to salvage this. Give him a chance but warn him if he messes up again he’ll be history
Why are you still talking to him? Are you slow, desperate, too ugly to get anyone and insecure?, he doesn't like you and lying saying you're pregnant just to keep him didn't work. He never liked you nor wanted a baby with youm leave him alone
I mean he didn't cheat, maybe he wasn't ready and got scared and chose the easier way instead of takingthe responsibility. You should help and support him to be there
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You broke up with him and then found out you were pregnant. And he later wanted a DNA test. He might have thought you dumped him for another guy and that the new guy took off when you got pregnant.
He seems interested... especially since YOU were the one that broke up with HIM
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