My ex is confusing me as shit. I need some girl advice with this one?

[Anonymous]

Me and my ex broke up few days ago (she dumped me , it was her first relarionship) we both were in love soo, apparantly something i did made her lose some feelings and she wanted tp break up, 3 days after our breakup she met me and we both agreed to be best friends like we were before we became a couple, she said dont hope thst ill again date you evem though there's a big possibility we both might "relapse", i said omay and we both talked after a while we realised we both acted different in the relationship snd as friends we both were not anxious as friends and had better convos , later on a mutual friend texts me that she texted him thst she was soo happy that we both became friends again , yesterday i texted her and kinda flirted (my bad i really shouldn't have done that) and she said said "my feelings fpr you are gone its now from i love you to like you now as a friend and they won't come back sonif you think we might date it prolly won't happen please dont hope bout it ion wanna makw you feel bad". I am more than okay with being a friend really but one of her friends told me she's kinda in like "denial" and keeps on saying i wknt relapse i won't but she really values you as a friend this whole situation is so confusing because a part of me hopws that we date (it dosent hope but "knows" we will date) kinda lile ted mosby lol but then she says stuff like i hsve moved on 4 days after our breakup i mean it might be true and im grateful for the honesty but ion think what she said was true for some reason. I need some advice ladies

[Aerissa_Jade]

She wants to be friends, regardless of if she has feelings for you or not, she doesn't want to go that direction. Try being a friend only. She may or may not have feelings and might be moving towards someone else, or just wants to be nothing more than friends.

[Asker]

She straight up said i am not gonna date anyone now i gotta focus on my career but please dp tell me if you date someone bcx i will be your friend dont avoid tell me shit, she reminds me of the shit we used to do when we started dating she texts her friends that she's genuinly so happy that we both still talk and we both agreed to hang on what could have been our 1 year she said" a strictly platonic date" im scared what if she relapse but dosent tell me or shit

[Bethany22]

If you're still flirting with her then it's easy for her to say she just wants to be friends. Try pulling back and see if she changes her tune.

[Asker]

You mean actually just be a friend?

[Asker]

Show her that i have moved onn to? So that she realises she still likes me and if she does ill know by the way she acts?

[Bethany22]

just not being friends with her at all

[Asker]

Im scared that she will force herself to be okay with it

[Bethany22]

right

[Asker]

I kinda wanna date her in the future plus its not easy not to talk her i cannot just ghost her i still have to see her fsce in the clas

[Darkstellae]

Ok so if she doesn’t believe you have moved on the just drop her you don’t need friends who don’t believe you and also never be friends with you ex it always turns out bad

[Asker]

I mean i kinda still have feelings for her but she straight up says she dosent like me anymore after like 4 days of the breakup but wanna be bffs she agreed to hang with me on our could have been 1 year and was like "a strict platonic date" she pointed out yesterday things we used to do in the starting of the relationship reminding me shit its like one part of her loves me still but she forces herself to supress it i think