Girls, Ex girlfriend confusing me?

[Anonymous]

Me and my ex girlfriend who were together for 5 years and we broke up because I had a smoke after I said I wouldn't do it anymore but she been dating her rebound last 2 month but we see each other everyday and flirt with each other but she now wants me to come over and do a drug test for month she not interested in us getting back even though we still sleep together. I think the question I'm asking is why would she want me to do a drug test if she dating another guy?

[Daniela1982]

A bigger question is why is she still having sex with you if she is dating another guy and you being an ex? And is she having ex with the rebound guy? ( my guess is yes) It's good that she wants to help you stop smoking ( weed I take it?). Are you hoping you two will get back together if you pass drug tests for a month or two? This all seems like a mess. My only thought at this time is to stop having sex with her and move on.

[Asker]

She swore on our daughters life she hasn't had sex with him because she doesn't fully want to move she thinks we will go in circles on me smoking weed so that's why I ask why would she drug test me only reason I and think is she want for me to show I've change but that's why I want a female opinion lol

[Daniela1982]

Only she can answer that. Maybe if you do change and keep to your word, maybe then she will look more favorably on you. But you have to see her side. No one likes someone who can't keep their promises.