Basically I’ve known this guy about 10 or 11 years. We lost contact for a few years and got back in touch January 2021, so about a year and a half ago. He messaged me on Instagram and he told me he used to fancy me back in the day. So we’d be texting regularly for like 7 or 8 months.
We met up one night, back in July last year and went for a drink. He kissed me, I obviously kissed him back. I liked him a lot & told him that & he said he felt the same way. We got together. The next day I called over to his house after work, he got his first dose of the Covid vaccine and wasn’t feeling all that well. I went home later on, didn’t stay the night. Didn’t hear from him for about 2 days I put it down to him maybe not feeling well after the vaccine. So I texted him to see if he was ok. To which he replied saying he was fine, I didn’t really believe that so I said I thought maybe he was having 2nd thoughts about me and him. To which he replied saying he feels we might have rushed into things and him not being sure about being over his ex etc so we ended the relationship.
Didn’t hear from him in months, then New Year’s Eve he texted me out of the blue and he asked me for another try. I agreed to give things another go with him. That last about a week. He then started saying he can’t do this with me, and he’s not ready etc. haven’t heard from him since. He told me before that his ex girlfriend fucked him over a load of times and is afraid of getting hurt. He told me before he cares about me. he was chasing me for months last year, showing me how interested he was. I obviously still care a lot for him & would love to give things another go with him but he’s got me blocked on everything. In the months leading up to us getting into a relationship there was no sex talk or sexual contact at all. Do you think he caught feelings for me and freaked out?
