Girls, I have mixed feelings?

[Anonymous]

I’m a little confused. So my female coworker just got engaged. She sends me the picture of the ring and was shocked when I told her “congratulations I had a feeling” . She goes onto say “How did you have a feeling “. Then I replied “ I can’t explain it but I just knew.” Then she says “ You know me pretty well “ . I don’t know what that’s supposed to mean but maybe she’s right because I don’t know any of her close friends or family it was just a gut instinct that led me to that conclusion. She hid the fact that she had a boyfriend even though in the back of my mind I felt that she did and my intuition was right. Regardless l am genuinely happy for her. The only thing is if I had known she had a boyfriend I wouldn’t have invested so much time into getting to know her. In the time we have spent I noticed some weird behavior. Up until now when we talked she had gone out her way to hide the fact that she was in a relationship and would speak in ways that implied she was single I mean recently like just a week ago she was talking about all the qualities that she want her next man have etc. In a few months she will be moving out of state and tells me that I can come visit her. It seems like I’ve just been conscientious and a emotional sounding board. In

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That’s supposed to be convenient and an a emotional sounding board

[Anonymous]

Yeah it’s normal to feel like this in your situation.
You invested too much interest in someone you believed is available. There is nothing wrong with having mixed feeling because in a way u felt “cheated” (I couldn’t think of a less harsh word)

[Asker]

Yeah your right I wish she would have left me alone from the beginning.