Girls, Girl gives me mixed signals (in my opinion)? solutions?

[Anonymous]

Hey,
I've been seeing this girl now quite a few months, doing regular stuff like cooking together, learning , watching movies sometimes etc - sometimes on a daily basis, i kinda developed feelings about her, to say so mildly

so my problem:
when we do this often she shows clear signs of attraction in my eyes (touching, resting head on my lab, prolonged eye contact etc, flirts heavily verbaly aswell. we talk about almost anything - how a perfect family would be, political and religious beliefs.
Calls me often, wants help etc.
and then there are days where she barely even texts, flirts and kinda builds a wall between us, it feels like - like those days are immediatly after she went crazy flirting wise.
whats up with that? those mixed signals are hard to grasp and to figure out.
is she unsure? is she scared? am i interpreting to much here?

[Helotome]

You probably interpreting so much. No Texting you after couple days like 2 days isn't a problem & if you know the person they are with you then it's not obligatory to flirt every single time you are together. Do she still affection around you? Do still seeing her?

[Asker]

ya i mean... its been like that for like 3-4 months. that cycle repeats like 3 to 4 times a month.
this special procedure is just kinda new to me...
other times it was consistent, thats why im doubting myself i guess.

[Helotome]

If it's happens frequently then talk to her about it. You have nothing to lose my asking. She maybe dealing with something. Tell her how you feel about her being distance sometimes and let her explain to you