Many of the men on here have probably heard my story, and given me their opinion. The guy I am hopelessly in love with is giving me mixed signals, so I thought maybe the best way to figure out how he feels about me, being that I am ALWAYS the one to initiate contact, would be to do no contact. I’ve told him I like him, he sort of hasn’t reacted to it, but then has agreed to go out somewhere with me when this lockdown has settled ( then again I don’t know if he’s just saying yes to be nice and has no intention of following through) but the thing is he’s never really reached out to me to contact me. would this work? If a girl gave you attention and lots of it then just randomly stopped after you never reached out to her, would you wonder what’s up?
Men - Does the night contact rule work on you guys?
I understand you, but the thing is giving full attention and suddenly stopping might get there concern for your health. But it's not what you expect I have been through this it's stupid plan that doesn't work.
Some tips would be. 1. Keep focusing on work more and acheive something. 2. Don't give full attention you will be taken for granted. 3. Don't be always there for them you will be like a furniture which gives undivided attention all the time but has no value pr respect same thing you won't get the value you think you deserve because they didn't ask for it. 4. Be communicative and add value to thd topic you ate both interested not the lovee dovee thing always
Ok, I have a problem with the "hopelessly in live thing" . How did that happen with out you knowing he's contactless? You don't even know him yet. Why not just do the simple thing and get to know him be dramatizing what you have with him. Let nature takes its course. GET TO KNOW HIM BEFORE PLAYING GAMES.
As for the randomly stop talking because I never initiate... that isn’t so random it seems if you are doing all the work and he is doing nothing. In my mind I am thinking he is thinking, “she finally got the hint.”
Dahhhh ! Yes indeed! but I'd never let it get that far and its rude ( at least I think it is ) not to respond to any form of communication... we all damn near have a cell phone these days and no one wants to respond... isn't that the convenient idea behind having cell phones?
You should move on. Not completely, but I’d stop being the one to always make plans and initiate contact. If he likes you, he’ll put in the effort. If not then you have your answer.
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