Does it really turn men off or change their mind when you sleep with them to soon? first dates etc?

[redrasberry21]

[Browneye57]

That would be 'too'. And no, it's actually the other way around - that is how you bind them to you.

Women connect emotionally.
Guys connect physically.
This isn't to say guys don't have emotions, it's just a very different dynamic.
If you're not physical with your man you haven't connected him to you yet.

But it's more than that, you have to present high value. You have to provide the things that keep men to you. Do you have any idea what those are? It's really simple, but a lot of women have just never considered it. They just figure if they show up with their golden vagina they're, well, golden. :)

[Browneye57]

And just notice there's no reply from the asker. She has never even thought about what it takes to get or keep a man. Just clueless. She thinks it's about how soon you have sex. Duh.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Depends, if it's on the first date but I knew you as a best friend for years before dating, then it's a turn on, but if it's a first date and I barely know you and you are already trying to ride my dick, then it's a huge reg flag for me to gtfo before we have sex.

[FlutteringFeelings]

Why would sex be a turn off to a man? It may not be a turn off to him because why would he turn down an offer but there is no guarantee that he’ll still around after or for the long run. Why buy the cow if you already have the milk.

[kkirk4442]

For some, yes. Other guys just wanted to get a good fucking from you, and didn't have any plan to stay wiht you. For some others, it probably attracts them.

[RingOfFire]

Generally yes.

Men tend to put women into two categories: slut or mother of their children

There is a name for this: It's called the Madonna/Whore Complex.

Generally, if she sleeps with you on the first date she has a very good chance of being put into the whore category and will have a hard time getting out of that (if that's what she wants).

[WesBrewer]

Yes and no, I can’t speak for other guys, but I’m against loose sex, so it would be a turn off, but if you somehow got me in the bed and did it, than I would try to marry you since that is how I think. But good luck getting me there haha.

[Anonymous]

For some men, probably. For others, no. Some men may lose respect, but others may actually appreciate that pace. Everyone is different.

[tdm209]

Depends on what they want. If they just want a fuck buddy or one night stand then it's not a turn off. If they want thing serious, probably.

[Anonymous]

It can, but it never changed my mind about a girl. Actually, I won't rush sex with a girl that I want to keep, but that is just me. I don't know how other guys behave

[The_Maphio]

Depends on for how long they want to keep the thing going. For hookups, the sooner the better.

[Anonymous]

We generally stop seeing you as a long term thing because we know we are not that special and therefore it’s common for you to fuck a guy quickly and therefore your value long term goes down.

[plzmee]

Not at all. An to the men answer yes I want you to turn in your man card you're a little whiny little dick bitch

[bamesjond0069]

Yes. You seem like a ho so marriage comes off the table and friends with benefits goes on.

[Joshua0213]

Yeah I'd say so for me at least. I would say so if its before 2 months

[Avicenna]

Honestly, no, it's not a turn-off

[Luckycharms12]

No normally 3 date you have sex

[MasterOfReality]

As far as being a long term relationship, yes.

[Anonymous]

Not usually