Is it really bad to sleep with someone on the first date? Or one night stand. Does it turn a guy off?

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btbc92 · Accepted Answer

That depends on what your lifestyle is, what your sexual beliefs are, what there's are, and how you wish to be seen. Many will say NO, and then often don't reach even a DATE or relationship. Some will bang and then bounce. Others bang you and then want you because you banged good. But it has 0 to do with if they love you or want you. If they are sexually experienced anyway, you will be judged based on your sexual performance. So remember that. Words are just words. Actions speak louder than words. And the patterns reveal all of that. I know for myself I would never do that or have sex before marriage. Besides it being a sin, it ain't worth the stress, torture, and hell. It's only as bad as the results and ending conclusion of that sexual decision. If a guy sleeps with you on those times, it's often just sex. Nothing more.

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

Holding off is better. It filters out the trash (both for women and men). Let's just be real we all want to meet that Mr or Mrs to be right. And I can't say too many of us go around saying I want to marry a bad trashy person... We all picture falling for the good...
Virtual is good and therefore more appealing.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

It doesn't trun me off at all but if on the first date if she's bold andvwants to havevsex its
a turn on for me. But what you hsve to understand is I have never ran it to s girl and asked her for a date. The girls I have dated I have meant them become friends and have know them a little while

I can use GaG for example I don't know any girl on here but would like to know 1 or 2 and through there questions I feel as if I know them I would want to on the first date if they said know it's cool I will walk out the door knock walk in lol and say I'm here for our second date lol

TonyV · Accepted Answer

It might make a guy looking for something serious loose some interested if you throw everything at him at once.

I'm pretty sure if he really likes you and wants to take things slow to build a more serious relationship he will tell you and just make you cuddle or something less than sex. So if he is dtf first date there's a good chance he also just wants a ons.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Whether it is bad depends on your goal for dating.

DIRKINOFF · Answer

So it depends on if you follow oppressive religious values or are more about a hedonistic lifestyle. Ultimately I don't think it's wrong for a girl to sleep with a guy on the first date, have a one night stand, wait till marriage, abstain for life, or have the Dallas cowboys run a train on her. As long as she's following her bliss it shouldn't matter what any tom, dick, or Harry thinks. That being said I would lose interest in a gal if she didn't make me work for it. I'm going to try on the first date every single time, if she fucks then I'm not as likely to see her again if she holds out for a while. I'm fucked up, I know...

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Looking back at my experiences.

It depends on what outlook you see with that person...

If you want to potentially become serious with them? Then holding off is a smarter way to go.

Cause not only does the guy naturally respect you more in the long run but you are valued more as a partner.

To elaborate on that, in a man’s mind. If a woman gives it up quick, I will always have it in the back of my mind that she is “easy” and with that being said obviously there is a heap of other underlying issues.

But if you wanna just hookup?

Then yeah bouncing on the dudes dick on the first night won’t affect the dynamic between you two

TruthBringer · Answer

High-quality men would not invest in you. You're too easy. What comes easy, goes easy. It shows you got poor judgment skills and lack impulse control. In this case, you're only a turn on for a quick fuck, not a turn-on for relationship material. But whatever floats your boat, baby girl.

slatyb · Answer

It shouldn't. If it does then he's an ass. Some people go to bed on the first date and stay together forever. Most don't and that's ok too. Have sex because you want to have sex. Most relationships don't last and having sex or not won't make the difference.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, it is.
And it turns me off if you're willing to do that because that means that you don't value sex. So if you don't think sex is valuable, then why should I give you my body? Because I actually believe that I AM valuable. So I'm not going to mess around with someone who takes things that casually.

Anonymous · Answer

Do whatever you like, but i would suggest you dont ever fuck a muslim those guys are total cunts.

They do all they can to fuck, particuarly virgins and then discard them on the basis that they must be worthless whores because they had sex with them.

I wish all those cunts were on fire.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends what you're looking for. If you're looking for a relationship, then sleeping with someone on the first date is a bad idea 99% of the time. There is the rare occasion that maybe the guy really likes you and won't judge you for it, but I think that's not common. In general, guys need more time to form an emotional connection with a woman, and if you sleep with him too soon, you cut off his opportunity to form a connection with you. Then you're left feeling attached and he's on to the next.

Hermes-Paris · Answer

A one night stand? That's like finding a 20 dollar bill on the sidewalk! Hey good for me! First date? Sometimes if things are going well than who am I to judge? Cool I just found another 20 dollar bill!

cgehr783 · Answer

Here's the thing. If he's bad at sex there's going to be problems. If he's good at sex but u never see him again, ur going to have problems. If he gets u pregnant, ur going to have problems. Ideally, u want a man thats good at sex, willing to wear a condom and likes you enough to stay but when does that ever happen?

jkm1864 · Answer

Depends on how long You have actually known the person. I was friends with My ex for quite a while and when We started doing stuff together it just kind of happened.

rishisethi3 · Answer

Yup in my opinion , it's bad as after that night , guys will give no interest you and it's a normal thing

Matthew2222 · Answer

I would not even consider it, and if a girl tried to take a date in that direction I would consider it a deal breaker.

stargazeraug · Answer

I don't personally think it's bad nor does it paint a woman in a negative light in my eyes. Sometimes sexual attraction is instant and sometimes it takes time to blossom. Either or is not a reason to think poorly of someone's character.

Paige90 · Answer

I have done it two times and I don't regret either of them.

TremorJay · Answer

Typically, more conservative men will be turned off, and more liberal men will consider it normal. I would take it as a compliment

apollo3000 · Answer

Neither bad nor good. It isn't a turn off - all those things are best done by how you feel, not by some template of well known/universally superior behaviour. There's plenty of latitude for anything providing you care enough and not endanger anyone.

Agem123 · Answer

Nope. Me and my boyfriend had sex on our first date (because we felt like doing it) and we're still together after one year.

EriFrancis1994 · Answer

I'd say it would turn a lot of guys on actually lol and it isn't bad

Wise4myage · Answer

It depends on what you're looking for. If its something long term, then you're wasting your time because you gave It up too soon. But its perfect if random hookups are all you are after.

sheikalana · Answer

Is not bad but I personally don't do it. Done that in the past tho.

RHK36 · Answer

It can be a turn off depending on the man and what he's looking for.

zagor · Answer

Not necessarily. But if you give the impression that you do that on all/most dates, then yes.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

If she  tries  on a first date I never bother with her again

Mikyjoy24 · Answer

No as permy knowledge. It makes them more greedy to have u. And even satisfaction and other mature bed things matter a lot.

Anonymous · Answer

I've had sex on the 1st date and a few one night stands but not once regretted them as they were all very enjoyable sexual experiences 😉👌

Cowboy6666 · Answer

It doesn't bother me. Infact I will love her more 😚

xyz789ssguy · Answer

I think it's not a turn off most guys ,,, every guys will like it..

gandolph3 · Answer

if a person judges you for that, they will judge you for about everything

hellish-kitty · Answer

If you both consent to it, go ahead.

MountAverage · Answer

Why would that be bad?

asshole_ · Answer

yeah shows you're too easy

mrgspoter · Answer

Depends but its not intended

Cherokeehp · Answer

No it’s not bad.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Usually

Anonymous · Answer

Some guys like whores

In_Trance · Answer

Depends on the guy

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

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