Guys, does the "30 day no contact" rule really work to get you back?

[Anonymous]

[wheist9095]

Of course not! If anything it would make me even less interested in a woman if she just disappears for a month with no contact. Especially if she's ignoring any outreach that I send out, like if it's day 11 and I send a text message and it just gets ignored for another three weeks yeah I am definitely not into that girl anymore.

Winning somebody back is a really difficult idea, because it depends entirely on the reason that you split for what could work if anything.

[OlderAndWiser]

At your age, you should not still be playing such silly games if you want to have a real relationship. This is just a way of trying to manipulate your partner and good relationships would never tolerate such behavior.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You mean if I'm dumped and to have no contact with her for 30 days?

I would have forgotten what she looked like after 10!

[Anonymous]

Oh I love these "rules" lol, what is this rule? I'm going to say no. Games don't generally work. Direct, honest communication wins every time.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Nope. Just solidifies it.

[Peuples_Francs]

No, it makes me move on to greener pastures.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Can you elaborate more on what that rule means?

[ChrisMaster69]

The what rule?

[Anonymous]

only if he has feelings for you

[In_Trance]

Never