How do you feel about the 3 day no contact rule after breaking up?

[Ms_exotique]

Do you think this is sure and a suffice way to tell if the individual really wants you? I'm trying to do that because each time he breaks up I at some point always hit him up first and come back to him. But I never seen if it's the same vice versa. So far it's just been a day after the breakup and a day of no contact.

[MeganForreal]

Ur question is ignorant and childish. I have never heard of a 3 day rule yo be dumped n go begging bavk. And this is a continued thing, whats wrong with you, obviously he either doesn't care or is just being a child. Either way ur better off just let him go, grow up and realize u can go 3 days, heck 3 years without someone like that in your life, be a strong independent woman and see if he comes crawling back and even if he did i wouldn't have him back, end of story.. move on to an adult

[jimyee]

That's a two way street. If one party doesn't go back because the second party didn't show interest then why should the opposite be of effect?
These are stupid games that children play.

[Ms_exotique]

True but what do I do if he broke up with me but I'm still in love with him? wouldn't him eventually initiating contact with me or not simply show if his still has interest in me or not? I don't want to seem desperate and message or call someone who broke up with me because I'll just look like I'm chasing him.

[jimyee]

This isn't the time to worry about looking desperate, this is the time to either fight for something you want or let it go.

[Anonymous]

Theoretically this is a good thing to do. If you show that your okay with him not coming back he may come running for you. On the other hand he may have a similar view.

[Sweatyotterr]

If you like him just text him and if he doesn't text you back move on simple as that

[RyanAmaral]

No..

[Ms_exotique]

Why no?