Is my ex confused or is she stringing me along?

[ediamond]

Me and my ex broke up a little over a month ago, we didn't talk very much when it first happened,but as time went on we started to talk more and more. Now we talk everyday and most nights we talk on the phone . Last night she was telling me she misses and how we are perfect together yet she is still being cautious? Is she being cautious or is she feeding a load of crap?

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i know this is going to take some time but I feel like we are making progress in that direction of getting back together . I can tell she is beating her self up over breaking up with me and when she says she is sad I ask why and she says idk. She is very indicifive and says she wants me to come lay in bed with her and says we are perfect for each other , she is trying to figure out a way to get out of her situiation with out hurting anyone . I know I can't rush it or I will loose her forever

[ianm91]

Man.. I'm in the same boat my friend.

My ex left me cause she wasn't able be in a relationship she said. It's been about 8 months now since she left.

We talked very little through the 8 months, had some times where I was telling her my emotions and feelings for her. Then she would do the same some time.

Now we started talking just a little more just casual now. She told me she isn't over me but she's over the situation. I told her the same. She told me she loves me, I didn't respond to that. Before we talked about that, she told my friend that she loves me, she tried dating some other guy for a week but couldn't cause she didn't want any body else.

We talked last night for about 6 minutes then she left the chat abruptly saying she had to go to bed and shower, which was a lie cause she doesn't sleep till 11pm and it was only 9. So. She's playin stupid games.

Your girl is probably the same, stupid and immature, can't make her mind up feeding you a bunch of crap to make you follow the bait so she can keep you interested.

My advice, stay away from her as long as you can, she sends you a message, shrug it off and just tell yourself, "This is a game, its not love". It's all just games for mostly every girl. They all like playing string along games. So I would just leave her alone as I am doing right now. I'm not looking back and seeing if I can get her anymore. If she meant what she said to my friend, she would try and not play stupid games.

I hope your girl does not do the same stupid games. Just be cautious yourself man, don't let her know you're interested, if you do, she'll try making you do all the talking and chasing.

Just back away and let her chase, if she doesnt, then she doesn't care like she says she does.

[question_girl]

she is being cautious of wht? did you break up or did she? please give details

[ediamond]

she broke up with me because we argued about a lot of stupid things. I took a lot of the blame for it, she talks to me like we are still together when she is not with her friends. I think she's scared that she will loose her friends or they will think less of her if they knew how she felt about me. She jumped in a rebound realtionship with someone she orginally hated and now I feel like she is trying to figure a way out of it. we still see each other ,she still flirts with me and makes plans to see me