She Keeps Contacting Me After Seemingly Rejecting Me?

[Anonymous]

Three days ago, I posted this question:
"She Says She Is Sick, A Day In Advanced Of Our 4th Date Plans?"

Shorter version of that post:
-Met a woman my age (late 20's), she aggressively pursues me, we have three dates in a week, sex all three times.
-She's probably re-bounding, having met me a few weeks after leaving her ex (she's had an on-and-off thing with her ex for the past two years, and prior to that, had been with him 4-5 years).
- We had our fourth date planned, she changes the plans a few days prior, for a seemingly legit reason, without offering a definitive alternative time (but implying she'll be available Sunday or later).
- I offer the next day (Thursday) for us to get together on Sunday instead, she agrees. Later that night she goes on to tell me she cannot wait for Sunday, she is looking forward to sleeping over, hooking up, and so on.
- Friday, is the first day she's never texted me since us meeting (2-3 weeks by this time)
- Saturday, she tells me she is sick with bronchitis, but doesn't say anything like "can we re-schedule for when I feel better?".
- I took the advice of someone here, saying something like "I was looking forward to seeing you, but since you're sick, let me know when you're better". She ignores that and changes the topic

Here's an update since then:

- Sunday, she tells me she's probably moving to her brother's town (~45 minute drive away), and it turns out she's already done it.
- She's looking for a job there, has two offers.
- She has contacted me at least once per day, the past three days (e. g., Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday), but, the texts are different.
- It's like she's stringing me along, or now trying to use me as her male therapist (e. g., venting her anxiety)
- I'm being polite & blunt, to discourage those types of conversations
- She still hasn't said "she's better now" or some version of "I want to see you"

I'm a bit confused as to why she keeps reaching out, without showing more interest in seeing me.

Any advice?

[Pot8o]

Sounds like she used you. She wanted a short-term relationship with no strings.

[Asker]

Maybe, I think it's a bit more complicated.

In the first two weeks, when she was very hot for me, she brought up the future three different times. Romantic things we could do out of town. That doesn't seem like short-term thinking. One thing she suggested was for next Spring (>6 months away).

[Pot8o]

Okay, but don't guys do the same? Maybe she's borderline

[Asker]

Hmm, my summary might just not give a good enough description.

She was telling me things like "the only time I've felt good lately was when you're around", "how are we so similar?", etc. etc.. She was eyeing me for a relationship.

But something abruptly changed during or after the third date.

The original post has some more details of that I think.

Honestly I think I let her disrespect me too much, with the cancelled dates.

Unsure why she keeps contacting in that case.

[Anonymous]

Bro you're back up plan for her...
Don't take her seriously... use n throw.

[Asker]

This turned out to be the case.

I was the #1 guy for a while, I stopped meeting her emotional needs (she is struggling with mental health), and replaced me with a guy who was more quick to take on her emotional struggles.