Three days ago, I posted this question:
"She Says She Is Sick, A Day In Advanced Of Our 4th Date Plans?"
Shorter version of that post:
-Met a woman my age (late 20's), she aggressively pursues me, we have three dates in a week, sex all three times.
-She's probably re-bounding, having met me a few weeks after leaving her ex (she's had an on-and-off thing with her ex for the past two years, and prior to that, had been with him 4-5 years).
- We had our fourth date planned, she changes the plans a few days prior, for a seemingly legit reason, without offering a definitive alternative time (but implying she'll be available Sunday or later).
- I offer the next day (Thursday) for us to get together on Sunday instead, she agrees. Later that night she goes on to tell me she cannot wait for Sunday, she is looking forward to sleeping over, hooking up, and so on.
- Friday, is the first day she's never texted me since us meeting (2-3 weeks by this time)
- Saturday, she tells me she is sick with bronchitis, but doesn't say anything like "can we re-schedule for when I feel better?".
- I took the advice of someone here, saying something like "I was looking forward to seeing you, but since you're sick, let me know when you're better". She ignores that and changes the topic
Here's an update since then:
- Sunday, she tells me she's probably moving to her brother's town (~45 minute drive away), and it turns out she's already done it.
- She's looking for a job there, has two offers.
- She has contacted me at least once per day, the past three days (e. g., Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday), but, the texts are different.
- It's like she's stringing me along, or now trying to use me as her male therapist (e. g., venting her anxiety)
- I'm being polite & blunt, to discourage those types of conversations
- She still hasn't said "she's better now" or some version of "I want to see you"
I'm a bit confused as to why she keeps reaching out, without showing more interest in seeing me.
Any advice?
She Keeps Contacting Me After Seemingly Rejecting Me?
