Guys, Do most women get Prettier the more attention they get?

[Unicornrose]

I find the more attention I get the less attractive I am. I worked in a place full of men and found out the were hoping I'd get prettier the more they wanted me. I was very uncomfortable for me and I found/so did they/ I get uglies when to much attention is paid to me. Is this normsl?

[MrOracle]

No. Guys want a girl who wants him, specifically - if she's getting attention from a bunch of other guys, for most guys, that's a turn-off - EXCEPT for guys who are merely looking to smash and pass. The guys who will chase a girl and "compete" for her are almost always going to be the ones who only want her for sex, and almost never the ones who have romantic interest in her.

Men and women value VASTLY DIFFERENT things in the other. While both generally appreciate good looks, almost everything else is different.

Things that (most) women want in a man:

• tall
• successful (good career/$$$)
• high status
• confident
• masculine
• takes the lead/makes the decisions/makes the plans
• experienced with women (comfortable, knows how to talk to and please a woman)
• protection/security

Things that (most) men want in a woman:

• youth
• purity (read: low body count)
• feminine
• friendly
• peaceful
• loyalty
• exclusivity
• her desiring and appreciating him

Notice that there's very little overlap on these lists. That means it's very important that you don't project YOUR desires onto the opposite sex (applies to both men and women), because you will almost always be wrong.

[NamerOfStars]

If getting attention made you prettier, then Donald Trump would be the most gorgeous thing in all creation.

I think we can all agree that's not the case.

[Unicornrose]

That's great and freeing.! Thanks

[Kaneki05]

I think so. It often makes them more confident and flirty, and someone we envy to be with so yeah.

[Unicornrose]

I feel worse. like I'm only worth sexual attention. It makes me sick

[Anonymous]

Most PEOPLE (not just women) get more attractive the more attention they get.

People like to think thier individuals. But the reality is people are all sheeple when you get right down to it.

[Unicornrose]

I'm not a sheep. If I put a totem in it I'm a lone wolf. I want to be left alone unless you have what I need. Ya know?

[Opinion Owner]

Your previous answers betray you.

[Unicornrose]

I'm trying to adapt. Its hard

[Unicornrose]

And your wrong. But as a lone wolf my son has no friends. So f u.

[Opinion Owner]

Probably cause his momma sleeps with guys that are already in relationships. I would be embarrassed if I was him to.

[Unicornrose]

That is actually very insightful

[Opinion Owner]

Of course it is. Kids get thier strength and encouragement from thier parents. I'm not saying that falls solely on the parents. But it makes up a big part.

[bowenw]

Are you referring to how attractive you see yourself when you get attention?

[Unicornrose]

Not really. I actually gain weight and my skin and hair go bad.

[bowenw]

I have never heard of that happening. It may be something to discuss with your doctor.

[Unicornrose]

That's good to know. Thankyoy

[CriticalCatDad]

In my opinion the more attention a woman gets the more condescending she becomes

[Jennz6]

We just trying to look good for you

[Unicornrose]

Never thought of it.

[Unicornrose]

Why?

[jahaims]

No lol