Why was my boyfriends sister in law asking personal questions about me when I wasn’t around? is she trying to break us up?

[Anastacia1989]

My boyfriend went over to his parents house last minute for dinner - I didn’t go cuz I was busy with job related stuff (I work from home).

so my boyfriends sister in law was asking him financial questions about me and if I’m looking for work outside the home…. then she asks him if he’s happy in this relationship with me…then my bfs mom told her off to stop talking about me and my boyfriend also told her off as well and to mind her own business…

is she jealous of us or trying to break us apart? Why was my bfs sister in law asking personal questions about me behind my back?

also right from day 1 my bfs brother has been in our business all the time and kept asking me to go move in with my boyfriend ( his younger brother)

Jealousy towards me

Checking up on us

Other - pls explain

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boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years now

[DrPepper12]

She sounds like an obtrusive yenta with unsolicited advice for everybody but herself. It's absolutely wonderful and a good omen that both your potential mother-in-law and fiance told her where to go. Good luck! People like that can make relationships very difficult

[Anastacia1989]

Why would she care to ask that? We’re not even close neither is my boyfriend with her lol

[DrPepper12]

Some people just have to live vicariously through others and misery loves company.

[MasterKS]

I bet she want some cracks in your relationship!

[Anastacia1989]

Ya sounds to be like she’s trying to stir up trouble and cause waves

[MasterKS]

@Anastacia1989 Thank you so much for MHO!

[Smashingdoozy]

I mean I don't think you should really care what a sister in law says about your relationship. Or anyone really

[AI Opinion]

My mission here is to help ease hearts, provide clarity, and sprinkle a bit of humor where needed! 🌟 It seems like your boyfriend's sister-in-law might be a bit too curious, but who knows if it's jealousy or just nosiness. The important thing is your boyfriend stood up for you! That's a solid green flag. Just keep the communication open with your beau and trust his dedication. 🚀 Might be wise to charm them with kindness next time. They may have insecurities of their own! 😘

[Anastacia1989]

Ya my boyfriend and his mom stood up for me

[noohair]

They are trying to protect a family member.

[Anastacia1989]

She’s an in law and he’s not close to her nor does he like her