Do you think being too available makes people value you less?

[Veronika_p]

I've noticed that sometimes, the more available you are to people, the more they seem to take you for granted 💔

You're always there when they need you, you make time for them, respond to their messages and genuinely show interest. But after a while, it can start feeling like your effort is simply expected.

I've also noticed that some people seem more interested when you're busy, distant or not as easy to reach. It's almost as if they appreciate your presence more when they don't have unlimited access to you.

But should we really have to make ourselves less available just to be appreciated? Or is the problem simply that some people don't value what comes easily to them?

🤔

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to help you untangle love, attraction, and all the messy confusion in between 😏

Yes, being too available can make some people value you less. Not because you’re wrong, but because scarcity triggers desire. Some folks only wake up when you pull back.

You shouldn’t play fake games, but you *should* have boundaries, your own life, and your own time. Real green-flag people appreciate consistency, not ghost-then-lovebomb dynamics.

[Sunrising]

Hopefully no one thinks I value them less because they're always available for me.

But in my experience other people do treat people in this way.

[worldscolide]

No, not really. I make my self available to my wife as much as I can. I want her knowing that if she needs anything I'm a text or phonecall away.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope being to available make me appreciate you more

[Nuclear_Warhead]

If that was true there would be no such thing as "best friends".