Attractive people, do you notice that others minimize your issues and life struggles just because you’re attractive?

[Anonymous]

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Any example or stories?

[Pejtu]

Yes mostly guys are jealous about my height or the way i look
Every girl left ans right sees me as a player
They do not understand attractive people also have life issues
Its like not like u get everything served on a plate in front of you just because u are a tall good looking dude
YES looking attractive helps a lot but people thing that attractive people have 0 problems in life
Example from my work
I got hired in jewelery shop biggest one in my city where lives about 800 000 people if not 1 milion
One other dude who is the boss in The shop is a real fkn dick to me for no reason it seems
But i know The reason very well
He is short, fat and his face looks like uhhh i can't even describe it
Lets say some humans look like this guy he is around 40,44 dunno
The reason he is a total dick to me is - all the working women between age 22 - 37 here ( there are 6 of them) are into me, some less some much more then The others
Especially 2 of them one is 27 and other one is 23
And since the day i work in this jewelery shop and this dude is there he will do everything to make my Life there worse

[dbr1987]

Ok first of all this is not me validating i am hot shit😉 but my example here, Friends are jealous (Not the right word) about how i interact with women and how they flock to me and come and speak to me out of thereselve. What they don't know is that i never ever can get deeply emotionally involved with women because i know to much about female nature. Researched why they behave the way they do and what their drives are, hypergamy and temptations through social media, infinite shittesting.. i also don't like hooking up with random strangers when actually it is for me like a kid in a candystore. Ignorance is a bless. I could never engage in a relationship when i physically have so much options. I don't like fucking strangers because i am disgusted how easy then get in bed with you. Some would kill for the women i am with but i don't give a shit about them. So they downplay this fact without knowing the background why things are what they are

[jennifer_bloom]

I wouldn't say I'm super attractive but some of my older co workers are jealous of me because I look like a teenager and they think I'm destined to have a better life than them - one co worker will try sometimes 8 times a shift or more to create problems for me - I think she is worried she will one day lose her job because of me because I'm younger and have more strength than her and can work better than her.

[btbc92]

Always. Instead of being personal theu make it impersonal to help feed their biases. They don't know you but they all act like they do based on your physical features and are often jealous. Unless there are rational reasons for it and the history proves it? They're just angry.

[BabyBirdy]

Absolutely. People immediately assume that life has been easy and nothing bad ever happens. When in reality, there can be more struggles and obstacles like people assuming that I’m dumb and women being really mean to me. It can be hard to make friends because women don’t want to be around

[wankiam]

that is indeed very common yet the petty people are just as likely to have trust issues or feel they are lonely. so people avoind the unattractive but just as many avoid the very attractive because they feel they have no chance with them... its really sad because at the end of it we are all just people

[Boredoftrivialshiiit]

wouldn't say im attractive but im laid back and smile easily to the point my fake smile is indistinguishable and people think I'm never unhappy so when I mention I have issues people din't take me seriously and think their anxiety and depression or whatever they deal with is worse than my problems.

[archiz]

For me it is not because of my attractiveness but because of my social status.
Now my country is in crisis and most of the people who's work is based here isn't doing so well my father included.
So when I feel like I want to open up and share my issues with my friends they dismiss me like it is nthng just because I am more financially stable than them, but that doesn't mean we are not struggling right now as well🤷🏿‍♀️

[TonyTheGuid0]

Yes, and I notice a lot of hatred also. It's crazy enough i get nazis calling me a "nigga" because of ethnicity, but I'm way cuter than majority of them on top of it? Yeah, people secretly want me assassinated 😂. Feminism is a big contributor to our fucked up world, but men are so insecure these days, it's pathetic.

[Alpha09]

People do that to attractive people all the time. it could be just a stranger, someone they know or a celebrity. They might have money, cars and clothes but that doesn't mean they don't have struggles and problems just like the rest of us.

[Asker]

Well you're a catfish, so I don't think you count.

[Alpha09]

Never claimed to be the chick on my profile photo, nor have I tried meeting anyone on here either so I don't know what your problem is.

[DiscomfortZone]

If you truly don't know - I wonder how you manage typing and breathing at the same time.

[Alpha09]

@DiscomfortZone lol oh I know id just like somebody to grow a pair and say it. Sounds like you have an idea, would you like to elaborate?

[ClosetHoe]

I dont know if I'm attractive to most people but I know that some people tend to minimize attractive people's issues. Being attractive doesn't mean you have a perfect life. It just means you have a perfect face/body.

[Purple_Summer]

I don't know if it has something to do with what I look like but yes people tend to think my life is really easy. I guess for some of them it's from appearance. What about you?

[DiscomfortZone]

After I comment and check, I'll see all these delusional idiots who are sure they're attractive when they're actually average at best, right? :) Obviously...

[DiscomfortZone]

Lol fucking knew it! These people turn lack of self-awareness to an art 😆🤣😂

[leahzrc]

I dont know about the attractive part because it happens to me too and im sure it happens to others

[Rangers]

What do you mean? You're pretty attractive

[leahzrc]

yeah but not enough to be considered attractive

[Rangers]

HA! I'd ask you out if you weren't a liberal😃

[leahzrc]

I act like any person would in person

[Rangers]

Then come to the gun show with me this Saturday😜

[leahzrc]

im in pennsylvania

[Rangers]

Lol, how'd you know I was from Texas?

[Rangers]

Seriously though, you're very cute, you shouldn't feel insecure at all

[leahzrc]

i figured you wouldn't be in pennsylvania and very cute can be anyone

[Rangers]

Not in this day and age, the fact that you're not all full of yourself either is also good

[leahzrc]

i guess im trying to say that im average and i feel like a lot of people hate themselves nowadays

[Rangers]

I'd say you're above average, I used to hate myself a ton

[leahzrc]

what changed

[Asker]

@Rangers Good for you bro

[elite665]

Not sure how attractive I am but sure people do this all the time To me except the top 2% of my friends who actually listen

[Милашка]

I can't answer this question as I'm unattractive but I know attractive people have less problems than us unattractive people.

[Junen]

How come? They may have different problems, not less. We all live in the same world here.

[Shiver]

Ha, don't have to be attractive for my problems to get downplayed like crazy. 😎

[chaeyoungswife]

Not that much but sometimes. Once I was comforting my friend who was on a date and got ditched and she told me that I was never gonna understand her problems cause I was pretty.

[AlexanderBrunnrgaard]

Depends. Women have always taken my problems seriously, while guys have tended to joke about it.

[BagoH]

Yeah but only the ones who appreciate it. Others who hate that fact make it even harder lol.

[stevemeh]

Cry me a river as I'm sure your tinder profiles remain forever unswiped to the right.

[jessonthemoon]

I dont consider myself attractive face wise or body wise but i have had my way in a few situations as some people thought otherwise

[hashtagsuburban]

Yea NO ONE GETS A FREE PASS FROM ME!!!
If your a self-centered person, I'll treat you as such. And I expect to be treated the same way!!!

[Ayer93]

I must not be attractive because I don't think anyone has minimized my issues and life struggles lol

[Rangers]

I consider myself average, but from what I've seen, it's the exact opposite.

[BoxySama]

Yes, I can stand have people tried to operate me with safety gloves

[The_man_whol_aughs]

I know right pathetic incels and cucks

Well I'm the one who does the opposite

[Avicenna]

That definitely happens

[elly91]

Yes it happens often...

[Anonymous]

Yes, it happens often.

[Anonymous]

If this is a real thing, I'm one ugly S. O. B.

[OhWonderland]

Yes.

[OhWonderland]

As an example, I will use one of the things that a friend of mine has said to me, in all seriousness
"Don't cry, you are pissing me off. You are not allowed to be heartbroken over that guy when you can go out in a bar and get dudes ht on you in a split of a second."

[Asker]

Yeah I got a lot of that after my breakup. Wasn’t crying to friends but they could see I was down.

[jazzydaddy6661]

It all depend how that person heart is

[lolopp]

Yep a lot