What's your go-to dating prep routine before a first date?

[DishLady]

Other than grooming, what is it that you do before going on a date?

• I asked bc a guy friend of mine has taking to looking EVERY guy up thoroughly before anyone in our friends group goes on a date. At first I thought it was insane, but now I see it makes sense for compatibility and conversational purposes. Just it's important not to call the person out if their personal story doesn't match what was found online. Be polite and considerate, but quietly note it as a red flag.
• Another friend sits around and hangs out for perhaps 30min before a date. She says it makes her less anxious about going out on a date. She's already smiling and happy for the day. I can also see the sense in that. (Plus it's helpful for someone to be around to tell you if you look presentable, haha.)
• Personally I just try to leave myself enough time to wind down from work.

What's your go-to thing to do?

[OlderAndWiser]

Realistically, the last time a girl came home with me on a first date was about 40 years ago, but i always made sure my home was clean. . . just in case. And it’s nice coming home to a clean house.