Tips for a first date?

[TsundereMatrix]

So first things first, I have never been on a date. Pretty much every guy that has asked me out was severely mentally ill, drug addicted, broke or just extremely lonely to the point where they feel like I’m the only person in their life. Not for me. I have asked guys on dates before and none of them were interested so for the longest time I decided to focus on myself. Recently I started online dating again and I matched with a guy who seems very compatible with me. At first he seemed a bit pushy for photos and meeting within the first 10 minutes of talking but after I said I like to take things slow he did slow down. It sounds like he truly accepts me for who I am and I do kind of like him so far. He wants to go out this weekend and I’m very tempted to go even though I’m terrified because this will be the first time I go out with a guy that I like who also seems to like me back. I don’t know how this works so I’d really like some tips. Also another intimidating thing about him is he’s very tall. He’s a foot taller than me.

Updates

1 y

He basically ghosted me the whole day. The date never happened but he insisted he comes over. I never met him yet so I said as that’s risky. I still appreciate the tips!

[Lynx122]

You haven't met a single guy who just goes to work and goes back home and is kind of normal in your whole life? How did that happen?

I'd say just talk to him and get to know each other I don't know. To me it's kinda important to see how the other person thinks. But otherwise I wouldn't really have high expectations for a first date so just go :).

[TsundereMatrix]

Right? It sounds like all those guys have nothing better to do with their lives 😆 and thanks for the tips! Thats how I plan to go about it.

[Lynx122]

thanks for MHO good luck :)

[Sevenpointfive]

you gon get

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aye a hay ay aped

[Abbycado]

If he knows about your past, accepts it and takes things slow, he’s a good guy. Go for it.

Just be yourself.

[Abbycado]

Ty for mho

[Danny_dan92]

Add to the conversation.




Be yourself

[rebeliouse]

depends on what you want to get out of the date :D

[Makeushiver]

It depends on what type of date it is time of day, type of location

[Anonymous]

Based on the info. You've provided I don't think it really matters. Just have fun. It's probably not going to work out. Good luck!🙂👍

[TsundereMatrix]

If it doesn’t then it is what it is. I don’t have high hopes right now

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, just have fun. Have hope when there's a good reason to have hope.

[Nahid1707]

Damn, if you asked me out i would have said yes if maple syrup was involved.


Don’t ignore red flags honey.

[Nahid1707]

Update,

Yea i don’t have much to add.
He wasn’t one
And he had his red flags
Such as only wanting to come over to your home, apartment flat or mansion you live in.