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Usually seems to make them less honest more toxic macho or just cringe 😬!

Had to help both my brothers who tried self help. Some sisterly advice got them so much farther, and dates, and gfs!

I must say I am not sure how much drunk he actually was. He wasn't completely wasted but he definitely had some beers and maybe some other alcohol. I myself wasn't drunk, I only had two vodka shots.

What I'm wondering about is whether he did find me attractive prior to this party of ours where the kiss and touching happened? Or how else does the drunkeness work? Do "moderately drunk" guys kiss just ANY girl? There were other, also cute and pretty, girls around, why did he go after me instead of one of them? He complimented me, specifically my hair, here and there kept his arm around me and when I was saying goodbye I could just feel he was up to something with that cheeky grin of his so I had tried to just kiss his cheeks and then leave, but he swiftly pulled me to him and kissed me (no tongue, just a proper smooch but no tiny peck either).

Then he promised jokingly he's gonna wreck me in the gym once he comes back 😅

I'm not interested in him, he is married I think, he's cute even tho he's older (was quite handsome when younger not gonna lie).

I think he may like me or at least find me attractive because I just realized he kept teasing in his own special style pretty much every training session of his.

Mine has changed a lot over the years but recently it’s been act of service

It always seemed quite weird to me, but quite a lot of my female friends and acquaintances absolutely FREAK OUT when it comes to their bra outlines or bra straps showing, even when it's just BARELY noticeable.

Like the above picture... to me at least it's barely noticeably, and if I encountered that woman in real life I wouldn't even notice her bra outline or bra strap unless I was specifically looking for it. Yet many women whose bras are showing just as much as the woman in the photo or even LESS than her still freak out about it.

Maybe it has something to do with "perfectionism" or "professionalism" or "formality" or whatever, but EVEN when just wearing a casual tank top or whatever, even if just to the gym or to the beach or whatever, they'd STILL complain about it.

Maybe I'm the weird one, but I literally couldn't care less about this "issue"...

I met this guy on tinder and we got talk and liked each other, we finally decided to see and for a while he wanted to be around me all the time and he wants to cook for me and all, we went grocery shopping together and he even slept at my place but we were not an item (neither did we get intimate) I told him I want to get to know him and not rush into anything and he agreed too. So there was this day I needed to get shoes and he said he wants to go with me and when we got to the shop I picked the two shoes I wanted and he paid and I asked asked if he was ok cause I notice he was a bit different and then we got back home he was mad about the fact that I made him pay for the shoes. I specifically told him I don’t want you to pay yet you went ahead to pay and now you are blaming me? I got so mad cause he was being manipulative but we settled it that night. It became an issue over and over again, he complained of how expensive the shoes are and how he is now broke, so I I decided to cook and invite him to eat since he is broke, but I got tired of him bringing it up so I told him after a long week or two of bringing it up that he should give me his details and I would send the money, he threw his card on my face (landed on my eyes) that I should send the money, I told took his details and I told him to get out and of my house and he was begging but I had to be calm cause he was being violent before he started begging and I was scared, I faked setting with him so I wouldn’t be beat up and we was all lovey dovey before he left my place and then he called days later to have conversations with me and I told him this can’t work cause he is a bit violent and disrespectful with words and then he said “shut the f**k up you dumb bitch* I ended the call and blocked him everywhere, he reached out not long ago that I should pay for the shoes and less I forget I have him on video saying I shouldn’t pay for the shoes that they are gifts before we had the fight.

So my partner and I have been together for over a year and this is the second year where they’ve went away during the holidays. I know my partner doesn’t see their family often during the year with their busy schedule so I understand and I’m happy for them to be going away. But I can’t help but be annoyed because it’s the second time not celebrating the new year with them.

Telling me how much fun they are having which I’m happy it’s a good time but I feel like it comes to a point where they should decide if they want to go away again or want to celebrate new years with you. They are getting a free vacation out of it too!

i dont feel like its common, dont know anyone like that irl. but online seems to not be so rare. lowkey stressing because if its common then i gotta catch lol dont want to be in the last ones to do this stuff

Especially when it's really late!

Gimme coffee!!