Why do guys flirt with me once and then stop completely?

[Anonymous]

You didn’t reciprocate

They didn’t actually flirt

Other

[IslaTheWitch]

do you flirt back? or just answer their questions? because flirt is interesting only if another person enjoys it at least the same

[jahaims]

You're a bad flirt or they don't like your personality

[Sevenpointfive]

how did they flirt exactly?

[Asker]

They try to extend conversation and agree to everything you say or compliment your fragrance, ask many questions about your life, work, living situation, hobbies, what you do today after work and on the weekend and offer to drive you home. All things that could be seen as merely friendly but just a bit too much

[Asker]

And the next time I try to talk to them they act disinterested

[Sevenpointfive]

maybe you take it the wrong way and they seem put off by your conceited attitude toward a friendly conversation?

[DoggyDude]

All those things can happen outside of flirting. Try touching them as you speak and smiling and see if they are surprised by that. In general if a person was intending to flirt, they will be gratified by recpirpication and esculation. If they where just being nice they will be surprised.

That said even if their surprised, you may just START a relationship right there.

[Sevenpointfive]

however, it's popular opinion to try once and if the interest isn't there to not try again

[meh51]

I don't know you so can't say

[strateguy632]

1st.