Polls

Imagine you meet two equally beautiful men or women. One has average teeth and one has perfect white teeth. Would both have the same chances with you?

29F, have been told I’m pretty/attractive, have a younger face which is how I could be deemed as cute instead. When I tell you I’ve never been approached by a guy I’d actually want to date, I get attention from guys in person but it’s usually the questionable ones. I’ve been told on and off in the past that a guy I found attractive would look at me/found me attractive but never did anything about it (I’m too shy to also). I don’t have any in person friends as I work remote & sadly only rely on dating apps. The guys I match with I find attractive but not sure if I’m just unlucky (likely the case) or it’s dating apps as a whole but for some reason it doesn’t work out for a multitude of reasons. If those guys actually noticed me in person I would feel a little bit more secure. My thing is I’m pretty old in my opinion, as most people my age are married & have kids. I only have a str under my belt from a few years ago when I was in my early twenties & have been single since. I have this mindset that if I was actually attractive, I would’ve had quality guys lined up by now. Since that str, I’m very selective & am even quicker to stop something in its tracks if the guy does something that turns me off/isn’t what I’m fully looking for. I think dating has treated me very unfairly as “pretty girls” don’t deal with this, unless I’m missing something. And I’ll add this even though it shouldn’t matter that much in the very early talking stages: I don’t care about sex much at all, maybe overthinking it but unsure if that vibe is picked up on being so reserved.

TLDR: would you also think you’re unattractive if you’re almost thirty & don’t ever get attention from guys you’d actually consider dating?

A guy told me he got a Ferrari to help him with women and get laid, because it’s a competitive world

0 is for kids who didn't make it out, so I'll leave it off.
10 is the best life a child could hope for.

My nail are currently the same length and colour as the picture of the shorter set of nails. I am tempted to grow them long and shape them like the picture of the longer nails.

Any advise as to what shape would be the most appealing/attractive?

I have long and slender fingers - to add context.

If you've already retired, what does your retirement look like? Do you have advice for the rest of us?

If you have not retired, what are you doing to prepare and how do you feel about it? What do you envision retirement looking like?

These are obviously just concept ideas so they don't have the right character or anything just something to show the artist to get what I want

Number 1 would stay pretty much the same just adding some ink to her blades

Number 2 obviously add correct character her crown and ad ink dripping from her arms

Number 3 add FMC&MMC back to back with his tail wrapped around her have ink dripping from the crown the main vilins eye's above the burning kingdom and one of his soldiers flying over head

Why or why not?

Do you have any favorite plants?

I really love hoya, jade, tradescantia, pothos, philodendron, and monstera for inside plants. There's practically a jungle in my house.

For gardening I love tomatoes, potatoes, turnips, greens, melons, and pumpkins the most.

I also put plants in my aquarium and coming out from the top for hydroponics.

Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It can be used in different ways and for either positive or negative purposes. Psychologists have identified love bombing as a possible part of a cycle of abuse and have warned against it.

Usually it happens in online dating with someone flooding you with compliments and attention. Then getting cold when you don't give them what they want.

Guys what are your experiences with this?

Which one do you like to call it in Adult Romance?

Spiderman for the win😌🕷