Are men superficial when it comes to choosing a partner based on looks?

[Anonymous]

Absolutely

Not

[abc3643]

The answer depends on the age of the male.

When young, it is mostly about looks who he is attracted to, BUT, he will be happy if he's simply getting attention from any girl who is not outright ugly.

But, after being in the dating world for years, the older guy realizes 1) looks fade and 2) personality becomes even more important.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nope, I believe in actually very flexible when it comes to looks

[Asker]

What if she was bald? Or what if she was overweight? What if she had a snuggle tooth or a scar on her face? What about a birthmark? What if on if her breasts are bugger than the other?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Bald and obesity are my only dealbreakers and by obese I don't mean overweight, I can do overweight, thick, chubby, it's only to the point where they lose their curves, they lose physical attraction to me, if I can't be sexually attracted to them I'm sure everyone can agree that there's no point cause it's an important part of a relationship, I could do crooked teeth, I can do scars and birthmarks, I've always been an add guy not a boob guy, her boobs can be flat for all I care.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Ass guy*

[Asker]

Then you aren't flexible when it comes to looks. You aren't open. I think you should question yourself if you are what you say you are.

If you turning down a woman because she lacks hair or is overweight, then you're missing out on something that could be everything for you.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Compared to most men im flexible, I never said I was open to things that I don't find attractive, I got two deal breakers, everyone has limits cause I'm sure you got your own, it's only normal.

[Asker]

If you say so. Everyone has limits, but no one should limit themselves to a possibility.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I agree, but it's not my fault I can't he sexually attracted to some stuff you know? 🙃

[ChicoFromThe305]

If I was some pimply bastard with blood pimples and shit and a woman was like "I can't get sexually attracted to him" it's not really her fault lol

[Asker]

Yes. We all are attracted to a specific something, whether we can help it or not. I must admit. But I wouldn't shut anyone out because they're not exactly my standard.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Exactly is a strong word or we would all settle for what we consider the top beauty but I don't believe there's anything wrong with having some standards in appearance because we all want a partner with a good appearance, it's all a part of someone type.

[Asker]

No said anything about settling. No one should settle. But to turn someone down becsuse they don't meet all of your standards or requirements... should they meet at least majority? Yes. But what if they do and it's just that one thing that you said that you wouldn't me physically attracted to?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well I don't believe it will last long if theirs no intimacy between them, but I guess it all depends if you can bypass it, personally I want to be sexually attracted to my partner tho, mostly if I'm waiting for marriage, which I am, it all depends on the people I guess

[Asker]

Attractiveness does equal how much imitating there will be. And one can be sexually attracted to a partner and not really be physically attracted, though you and I want both. But in due time, one will become more attracted to their partner in all ways.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea when they fall in love you could grow physical attraction towards them as Well, that's a good point

[Asker]

And I meant to say attractiveness doesn't equal how much intimacy there will be. This darn keyboard keeps auto "correcting" things for me lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Happens all the time for me, auto incorrect more like.

And it's a good point cause love actually helps with that, I've experienced it.

[Asker]

That's good that you experienced love. Hopefully you were loved in return. Unrequited love hurts the most 💔

[mandyfire98]

Choosing solely based off of looks? Probably

Looks play a part for sure but it's not all there is.

[Asker]

Agreed

[petitedollbabee]

Some are, some aren’t.

[Anonymous]

No more than women.