Does a womans looks matter more than a mans when it comes to finding a true relationship?

[Anonymous]

Im not talking about a relationship where the woman is using the man for dates, food, experiences and other bullshit irrelevant to visceral natural love

Yes

No

[Nikki1989]

Societal norms and media often place an emphasis on physical appearance for women, but this doesn't reflect the reality of individual preferences.

[Anonymous]

No. True love doesn’t care about looks.

That being said, a truly ugly person may struggle to find love, but even for them the right person is out there. And in my opinion an average person has just as much chance to find true love as someone who’s gorgeous.

[Vegasrunner]

@Anonymous I think the difference is if a man is ugly he can make up for it with other things. For women their beauty is their prime agency.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner maybe but I still feel like an average girl has just as much chance to find true love as a beautiful girl. And even an ugly girl has a chance if she finds someone of her preferred gender to look past her surface imperfection.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner If they have to settle than by definition it's not true love.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner sure it is! Only someone who truly loves her would love her in spite of her appearance. And if she loves them too, then it’s true love.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner If a woman is ugly, then her chances of getting a HV lessens. The man that she does get isn't her first choice and proably isn't her 50th choice. Therefore it's not "love" it's practicality which Ironically is what most relationships are based on.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner not true! She just has to wait for that one person who really gets her.

What’s an HV?

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner If she's ugly that person who "gets her" is going to be a man that can't get anyone better, so she will have to settle. Women are valued on their looks.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner I disagree. But ok.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Lol, what part do you "disagree with"?

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner a man can't makeup for being low testosterone and a woman can't make up for her hormones being messed up. even if a woman's beautiful and she has facial hair, it's an instant NO from almost all men. similarly, if a man isn't really attractive, but he had healthy hormones his whole life there will be "love" there.

[Opinion Owner]

Your assumption that most people are and should be mostly concerned with looks and material things in relationships. If two people love each other, none of that matters.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opiniom Owner No. Reality says that men are mostly concerned w/ females looks, and physical appearance is all women have to attract a HV man.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner not all men are that shallow. And the ones who are shouldn’t be.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner All isn't a pre-requisite for truth, men that have made something of themselves definitely want a beautiful women. Why wouldn't they?

[Asker]

looks are not shallow. they're pretty important, if not the most important thing. in fact id say you're bordering on weird/creepy if you say looks dont matter

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner not all girls chase after men who are famous or materially successful.

I agree, looks are an important part of a romantic relationship. But at the same time, if you really love a girl, you won’t care if she’s not objectively beautiful.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Any man who's successful will. The proof that women chase men who are famous is the fact that you can't name one famous man who struggles to get women. Looks are important for women, men can get by w/our looks. Women can not. An ugly women is equivalent to a broke man.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner again, I disagree. But ok.

I’m done arguing. We’re not going to convince each other of anything. Have a great week.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner You are more than welcome to "disaree" it doesn't change the facts however.

[paledreams]

My eyeballs 👀 do size up potential mates as attractive or not, hot or forgot ♀️👀

[Anonymous]

In the past I would have said yeah. But anymore it's pretty even.

[Chthou95]

Nope. Women care about looks just as much as men do. Human beings carw about looks

[strateguy632]

1st!